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    Question Help With First Date Logistics Plan

    Hey whats up I just started watching some PUA videos on youtube and seems very cool so I heard adam lyons talking about how important logistics are and wanted to see what you thought about this plan for my first date:
    I'm going on a date with a girl Saturday and trying to figure out what to do I think I have an ok plan let me know what you think (Im 16 shes 17 both will be seniors):
    1.Use my moms SUV and pick her up and take her to the movies and meet up with my friend and his gf at like 7:00
    2.I cant drive after 9:00 w my license so we'll drive back to my house and drop off the car. My friend lives the next street over so me and her will walk over to his house and meet up with them
    3.Then we can walk to cold stone which is like 1/2 mile from there and get some ice cream
    4.After that we can walk back to my house and her parents would have to come pick her up

    let me know how you think this would work i normally wouldn't be worried about this shit its just that i dont have a car yet and have a restricted license which makes if hard.

    Also I know people say movies aren't original but were 16 and 17 so its not like she's been on a ton of dates and is bored like most girls PUA are focusing on.

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    Default Re: Help With First Date Logistics Plan

    Hey Mike, looks like you got a good plan here. You didn't say what your goal was for this date or what you want from this girl long-term, but my advice would be to just have fun, tease her when you feel it is appropriate, and try to work in some kino at the movie and when your walking about with her. Don't put to much pressure on yourself, just have a good time and incorporate what game you feel comfortable utilizing. Don't overdue it. Just take the attitude that this girl is trying to win you over, and by spending a night with her, you are going to see if it is a girl you wish to invest more into.

    High school and to some extent college girls often haven't had many guys in their life that will talk to them about their ambitions and future goals in life. If you can, try to share conversations with her that go beyond the base level. That alone will make her more comfortable and attracted to you...it will distance you from a lot of the other guys your age.

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    Default Re: Help With First Date Logistics Plan

    Yeah man i just met her at a party (she actually gave me her # I didnt even get a chance to ask!) and I like her alot more than most highschool girls haha.

    So I know what kino is but how specifically would you suggest I go about doing it in a movie theater and on a walk. Also what movie should we see thats out know. (I know she doesnt like batman and my friend + his gf already saw TED but anything else would be possible)

    Thanks so much dude

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    Default Re: Help With First Date Logistics Plan

    Sounds like a solid plan to me. When you drop off the car find an excuse to stay at your house for a few minutes. This will get her familiar with your place so when you bring her again later she will be comfortable.

    The way you handle a movie theater is this:

    -Ever go through the previews and RIGHT at the end of a preview someone blurts out "Boooo!" or "AWESOME!!" Well guess what.....that someone is YOU! This will embarass her a little and make her laugh.

    - Its not just important to initiate kino, but also important to end it first.

    If you rub your arm for 30 seconds then stop, it'll be warmer, then colder, than the rest of your body and will feel like there is some kind of "phantom hand" left behind. This is how you want your touch to feel with her. Like it is awkward if you aren't touching her. When you remove your touch she will want it again. So she will either reinitiate kino, or be more receptive when you initiate again.

    Fight her for the armrest. Be playful. But also get serious about your kino later on.

    Start with the knee. Place your hand there for a few min or just pat it. Then look at your cellphone and don't put your hand back for another few min. Do this a few more times then move to her thigh. Again either look at your cellphone or remove it as if the movie just suddenly became for interesting. Then you can hold her hand, remove it after a few min. Rinse and repeat.

    Throughout the movie you want to make eye contact. Smile and look into her eyes. But make sure you stop looking at her first. Move very slow and deliberate when you do this. Keep doing this until you have to say something in her ear about the movie, then smell her hair. Tell her her hair smells nice, linger for a sec, then completely back off. This will give her the chills since her neck will feel much colder now you backed off.

    All this will help you get a kiss before you even leave the theater. So when you go back to your place for the 2nd time, she will be used to your place and all hot from the movie. Then you have some time for a make out session before her parents show up.
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