Re: Help With First Date Logistics Plan
Sounds like a solid plan to me. When you drop off the car find an excuse to stay at your house for a few minutes. This will get her familiar with your place so when you bring her again later she will be comfortable.
The way you handle a movie theater is this:
-Ever go through the previews and RIGHT at the end of a preview someone blurts out "Boooo!" or "AWESOME!!" Well guess what.....that someone is YOU! This will embarass her a little and make her laugh.
- Its not just important to initiate kino, but also important to end it first.
If you rub your arm for 30 seconds then stop, it'll be warmer, then colder, than the rest of your body and will feel like there is some kind of "phantom hand" left behind. This is how you want your touch to feel with her. Like it is awkward if you aren't touching her. When you remove your touch she will want it again. So she will either reinitiate kino, or be more receptive when you initiate again.
Fight her for the armrest. Be playful. But also get serious about your kino later on.
Start with the knee. Place your hand there for a few min or just pat it. Then look at your cellphone and don't put your hand back for another few min. Do this a few more times then move to her thigh. Again either look at your cellphone or remove it as if the movie just suddenly became for interesting. Then you can hold her hand, remove it after a few min. Rinse and repeat.
Throughout the movie you want to make eye contact. Smile and look into her eyes. But make sure you stop looking at her first. Move very slow and deliberate when you do this. Keep doing this until you have to say something in her ear about the movie, then smell her hair. Tell her her hair smells nice, linger for a sec, then completely back off. This will give her the chills since her neck will feel much colder now you backed off.
All this will help you get a kiss before you even leave the theater. So when you go back to your place for the 2nd time, she will be used to your place and all hot from the movie. Then you have some time for a make out session before her parents show up.
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