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    egle is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default just met this girl - but I don't know how to start up the conversation

    hey guys first of all I'm so happy i discovered this forum. right here is my problem first of all I'm kind of crap with the whole girl thing talking to them etc. i went to carnival on Monday and met this beautiful girl she was wearing my countries flag and it was her and her sister i invited them to come get a drink with me and my group and they did and they stayed with us until we left. the next day the sister added me of Facebook and through her profile i found the one i liked. now the sister has a boyfriend and the one i like doesn't. i chatted to the one i like all day however now I don't know how to start back up a convo with her and keep it rolling day to day if that makes sense. any help would be greatly appreciated.

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    Default Re: just met this girl

    a) don't act too quick
    b) read a bunch of stuff on here in the mean time
    c) read some texting rules always DHV, and create attraction through texting.
    d) add her to fb and then try and set up a hang out.

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    egle is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: just met this girl

    shes already on my fb. but will do. and thanks

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    Default Re: just met this girl

    It sounds like you're chatting over facebook?? - if so use an FTC and set up a hang out:

    "Hey! I'm just heading out the door - getting drinks with some friends later, you and your sis should come! ;D"

    If you have trouble transitioning in conversations then sometime canned (personal) material can help get you used to keeping the conversation afloat.

    I always like to make a list of a few DHV stories I can tell if I'm ever drawing a blank for situational stuff. Talk about where you're from and where you work and how you got to where you are now - describe the journey not the destination - then conclude it by asking her to share the same about herself, get her to open her world to you after you open yours.

    Talking about yours -> then asking about hers will let you gain new details about your mutual interests that can then be explored (without all the job-interview-esk probing). It can also set the frame of you taking the lead - you show her yours -> she shows you hers
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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    egle is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: just met this girl

    Thank you but how do i start talking to her again? dont want to seem like im bugging her or being a creep...

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    Default Re: just met this girl

    First you gotta change your Inner Game and Frame.

    Quote Originally Posted by egle View Post
    Thank you but how do i start talking to her again? dont want to seem like im bugging her or being a creep...
    Talking to her isn't bugging her - it's granting her the privilage of being a guest in your high value world. Wanting to hang out with her isn't creepy, it's fun - because YOU are the life of the party wherever you go and SHE has impressed YOU enough that she might be fun too.

    Check out this and this on Inner Game by rs5096, also this on confidence by RedBaron and this one about being Alpha by Vigil.

    Enjoy!
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    Default Re: just met this girl

    Quote Originally Posted by Achilies View Post
    a) don't act too quick
    b) read a bunch of stuff on here in the mean time
    c) read some texting rules always DHV, and create attraction through texting.
    d) add her to fb and then try and set up a hang out.
    When your talking to a girl
    should you point your pointing one's feet or entire body towards her, or like slightly away, or alternative between the two ?


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