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Thread: I freeze up around a girl I've never talked to...

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    Default I freeze up around a girl I've never talked to...

    When I was a freshman in college there was this girl in my dorm that was SO farking beautiful and joined the hottest sorority on campus blah blah blah..she really seems like a fun outgoing girl but I never really saw her on campus...I never talked to her but I'm "kinda friends" w/ some of her friends in her sorority..

    ANYWAYS, I finally started seeing her at the bars but I just freeze up when I see her cause I'm always thinking, "You only have one shot at this...don't fark up".

    What can I do? Any motivation would be fantastic!

    Thanks guys and sorry I've been out of touch recently.
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    Thumbs up Re: I freeze up around a girl I've never talked to...

    Quote Originally Posted by ShoreGuy28 View Post
    When I was a freshman in college there was this girl in my dorm that was SO farking beautiful and joined the hottest sorority on campus blah blah blah..she really seems like a fun outgoing girl but I never really saw her on campus...I never talked to her but I'm "kinda friends" w/ some of her friends in her sorority..

    ANYWAYS, I finally started seeing her at the bars but I just freeze up when I see her cause I'm always thinking, "You only have one shot at this...don't fark up".

    What can I do? Any motivation would be fantastic!

    Thanks guys and sorry I've been out of touch recently.
    you have to realize she's just another girl, girls all follow the rules of society,and fortunately for you one of those rules is that it is rude not to be polite to people who are being polite to you. as long as you don't offend her she will respect you. you have nothing to fear and everything to gain by approaching her. you can do it! good luck!!

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    Default Re: I freeze up around a girl I've never talked to...

    Best way to beat this is to implement the 3 second rule into your mindset. Whenever you see a hot chick regardless of who she is you should spend no more than 3 seconds from the time you see her to the time you approach her. Just do it and if it messes up... then shit happens, leave with your dignity and if you black out, just say "Well it was awesome talking to you but I've really got to go now, have a great day!"
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    Default Re: I freeze up around a girl I've never talked to...

    Good post sohan! Simplifies the 3 second rule.

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    Default Re: I freeze up around a girl I've never talked to...

    Three second rule is definitely important, my mate insisted on approaching a set he had been keeping an eye on for like 20 mins and he's normally pretty good at what he does, they had caught him looking like 5 times and I warned him not to. But he went, opened and got completely blanked like they had no interest at all.......why....bec ause they knew he had 'put the pussy on a pedestal' as its said and therefore decided they could do better, we then opened a 3set that had just walked in and everything went well.

    Just thought I'd share some proof hat it's important

    Linking x

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    Default Re: I freeze up around a girl I've never talked to...

    Just approach her like she's any HB. Infact DON'T even mention that you guys kinda know eachother from before. If you walk up with "Hey didn't you used to live in my dorm?" then you might as well add "...because I remember seeing you but was too nervous to approach." - auto-blowout.

    Game her like any HB in the bar and let her realize that you kinda-sorta-know-eachother (because YOU didn't notice HER back in the dorm). And if one of the sorrority friends that you know is there - awesome! That's social proof and you can talk to the friend and ignore her ftw.
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