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Thread: MMA/cage fighting.......DHV or not?

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    Default MMA/cage fighting.......DHV or not?

    Ok, so I have been doing MMA and cage fighting for about ten years now, it's a part of my life and my personality and tbh has probably contributed to me being a confident person more than anything I've ever done.

    However I quite often get asked by girls if I work out.....I'm in pretty decent shape...hence the question. And I tell them I work out in a gym a lot and normally tell them I do MMA.

    Problem is I can't tell whether maybe I describe it wrong when they ask what it is or whether it's the fact they just view me as a thug when they find out, but they always seem to think it means I must be a really aggressive person which just isn't true. Should I stop mentioning it or is there a way I can play it so it doesn't come off like that? I only ask because it's the only sport I do and I feel like maybe it's a DLV if I don't have any hobbies lol.

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    Default Re: MMA/cage fighting.......DHV or not?

    Does 'its flirting not Lieing' count if I make up a diff sport? Lol

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    Default Re: MMA/cage fighting.......DHV or not?

    Quote Originally Posted by linking View Post
    Does 'its flirting not Lieing' count if I make up a diff sport? Lol
    Yes, yes it does indeed... so long as you make it realistic enough that it's believable, come up with a DHV routine for this and practise it shitloads then you are well on your way
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    Default Re: MMA/cage fighting.......DHV or not?

    Hey linking,

    Doing any sport once its an aggressive sport is good. Women like strong men. I met a woman lastnight and she asked what I did and I told her I played rugby on the weekends. I also run a lot and go to the gym. She liked that. Now yes, sometimes by saying that it implies you are more manly, which to me is good.

    I think in your situation is that after telling a girl what sport you do, in this case MMA, and you see their response which is that they are smiling or in amazement. You have to use direct game and go for the full ultimate close which I personally think is the f-close.
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    Default Re: MMA/cage fighting.......DHV or not?

    Quote Originally Posted by linking View Post
    Does 'its flirting not Lieing' count if I make up a diff sport? Lol
    No MMA is a great sport, that means you know how to defend her because you are warrior/specialized fighter. In America, women would want to f4ck you if you told them you do MMA and you are really good. I fark with a lot of European women because I told them what sports I played.
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    Default Re: MMA/cage fighting.......DHV or not?

    Do what I do when girls press me about PU (Oh, you write? What do you like to write about? // How does everybody know you? // etc)

    Give her a taste and let her prod for more later. Turn the tables and have her invest in you further before talking about the aspect in question.

    "How about we talk about you a little more before getting to me. I'm not that interesting anyway "

    "Well I spend a lot of time at the gym, but we can talk about that later."
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    Default Re: MMA/cage fighting.......DHV or not?

    Dude, I think its a great DHV. Especially if you talk about it as a fair sport and show a Fedor Emelianenko (down to earth and showing respect to your opponents) attitude rather than an attitude of a violent and arogant jerk.

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    "When i was a kid i used to be quite aggressive and got told by my father to try martial arts, the funny thing now is im so much calmer as a person, i can see a bad opportunity before it happens and either de-esculate the situation or avoid it. Its funny how you learn to defend yourself and you end never using it, or maybe i only need the mental principle from it."

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    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: MMA/cage fighting.......DHV or not?

    Thanks for all the replies guys, some really good stuff

    Linking x

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    Default Re: MMA/cage fighting.......DHV or not?

    Just tell her you work out, don't mention MMA. Most of my friends that are blackbelts never talk about it, because it usually spawns negativity, such as the question "Do you think you can kick my ass?". If she asks, of course there is no need to lie, but if she doesn't than no need to bring it up. It gives her something really cool to learn about you later on, and just avoids the whole situation. By the time she finds out you do MMA, she already knows you well enough to know you aren't aggressive.
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