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    Default Help Getting Going In College

    How does someone get going in college? If you're pretty much just starting from scratch how do you make friends and meet girls? I mean, I know a few people here and there, Im trying to join a fraternity, and I've got my eyes on a couple campus interest groups, but I still feel like there's some things I could be doing that I have missed.

    I consider myself a beginner with girls, but I have studied some material and have recently put focus on inner game and confidence building. All things being equal, I've decided to start from square one again starting with building confidence. I hope to progress through the stages as quickly as possible, but me and others reading this who find themselves in a similar situation could use some advice.

    How does someone go from zero to hero with girls on campus? What can you do if you're alone on a friday night? What about the people you text that don't text back? Do you guys think facebook is worth keeping around?

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    Default Re: Help Getting Going In College

    isuggest familiarizing yourself with your classmates in your classes and then opening them outside the classroom, you can easily open with something about the class example "what do you think of professor """", i think he's a horny old man" or "hey did you do that english assignment, i thought it was blah blah" you get the idea. its easier to open because you have a commonality with the people in your classes. even if you don't get any numbers the first time you talk to them you will see them again making friends is what i have had trouble with in college, i don't exactly fit in with very many other guys we'll leave it at that. facebook can deffenatly help, even if you don't talk to anyone on there,it will give you social proof when they see you have 300 friends on there. it shows that other people accept you and you aren't a loner.

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    Default Re: Help Getting Going In College

    Class seems like it could be a good place to start, but slow going. Doesn't hurt to have a long term strategy, I suppose.

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    Default Re: Help Getting Going In College

    class is the best starting point on campus, also you can build social proof just by being that guy who is confident enough to ask the teacher questions/answer the proffesor's questions. it will establish that you are a leader and people will notice that instant social proof

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    Default Re: Help Getting Going In College

    It is all about joining social circles and working your way up their ladders. Just introduce yourself to people you see everyday, familiarity will offer a level of rapport. Once you introduce yourself and get that level of rapport, introduce them to other people and have them introduce you to others. Do not stop there that connection is just a start.

    After your introduced and friendly with people, you need to take a big interest in them, show you have something to offer them. That your not freeloading in the social circle, that you understand their inside jokes. Ask how they know each other, etc.

    Key with social circles is people in each one sleep with others in their social circle, due to comfort. The more social circles your in and the high your status in each other will lead to more opportunities.

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    Default Re: Help Getting Going In College

    Oh wow, these are some great points.

    I was never really one to talk much in class, but I coupd see were tactful contributions or occasional questions could help you stand out as someone who is assertive. I guess you just make yourself visible, then work on the people as you get the opportunity to.

    Im going to try to be more involved with people and try to be part of different groups. This is going to be a challenge though, just talking to people and trying to form groups or whatever. Not something that comes naturally, Im not usually someone that organizes events or meetups.

    Thanks for the suggestions. Im going to keep these points in mind tomorrow!

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    Default Re: Help Getting Going In College

    So can you guys make suggestions on how to approach while on campus? I have sticking points galore when it comes to different situations, like the girls in class how to approach them?

    I guess it's the social pressure that gets me. I know I think too much. When I've approached in the past I've been pretty effective. I even get some positive comments from time to time, but I still feel like there's something holding me back.

    There's girls in class I'd like to talk to, but I can never get what I feel like would be my ideal approach situation. For instance: "she takes too long to leave the class should I wait for her?", or "everyone is leaving at once in a congested hallway so making my move here seems like suicide," or she's with people.

    What about the girls who are walking to class? I know stopping one of them would be a cold approach and they're probably in a hurry for class. Is cold approaching a bad idea on campus? And what about the girls studying in the library? I just feels like to do any of this is like trying to jump off of a cliff

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    Default Re: Help Getting Going In College

    personaly i think warm aproaches work better for me, find out about all the campus clubs and join a few that you like, for instance i joined a club for people who are having trouble getting used to college, turns out i was the only guy who even considered the club, witch instantly made me the alpha in the group of all girls. the group leader even encouraged us to share our numbers! easiest number closes of my life! by being a member you already have a commonality to use as an opener/raport tool. if your into cold aproaches lunch time is the best time when nobody has classes to get to

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    Default Re: Help Getting Going In College

    Oh that's great, gotta give you props on those number closes! I found that I try to stay away from cold approaches unless I can manage one casually. Although I try to push the comfort zone. Idk, I just dont want to catch a label as a creeper or whatever.


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