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Thread: Girl teasing me or just playing hard to get?

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    Default Girl teasing me or just playing hard to get?

    how do you deal with a girl that has a boyfriend (for like 3 more weeks) and likes you, and already have had a thing with her, but arent going to deal with being played or anything? what would you suggest? and there's still tension there...i.e. having talked about going out/sex etc...and having already hooked up once..and then i told her basically not to text me because its not worth my time and i didnt want anything to do with her because this last saturday night she randomly texted me (she was drunk...etc.)

    Then tonight i was supposed to meet up with her..called her up and told her we were gonna talk in person...when i got there (the library), texted her like 10 minutes after we were supposed to meet and she says she's studying..i didn't reply.


    Could someone just tell me if she's legitimately playing me or if there's a way i can go about this so i can gain the upper hand and be in control of this?

    Or, should i just let it go at all ?
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    Default Re: Girl teasing me or just playing hard to get?

    seems like she likes you but you kinda hurt her with the message you sent her. best option right now is to either hang out and talk about it calmly. it will go one of two ways. either sex while shes with the bf or just friends
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    Default Re: Girl teasing me or just playing hard to get?

    Quote Originally Posted by Hopeful33 View Post
    seems like she likes you but you kinda hurt her with the message you sent her. best option right now is to either hang out and talk about it calmly. it will go one of two ways. either sex while shes with the bf or just friends
    Yeah ended up texting her after that telling her..i respect the boyfriend so talk to me when you're officially single..

    she texted back saying we weren't more than friends and she wanted to clear that up (which is bullshit, because she knows we are more, and we've talked about sex etc..)

    so to that i just told her she was acting like a child and for her to talk to me when she's officially single and sees things how they really are. otherwise, goodbye.

    no response back.

    honestly don't care too much because she was acting immature.
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    Default Re: Girl teasing me or just playing hard to get?

    critique? I'm honestly gonna leave it there, think thats best.
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    Default Re: Girl teasing me or just playing hard to get?

    yep i think it is best time to move on to better things for now
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: Girl teasing me or just playing hard to get?

    Quote Originally Posted by Hopeful33 View Post
    yep i think it is best time to move on to better things for now
    Right what are the chances you think she will come back?

    or have you experienced something similar?
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    Default Re: Girl teasing me or just playing hard to get?

    yes i have and there are different situations but it sounds like she likes you but wants to be with the other guy more. so you should just go out and start new with a few other girls. if you still want her nothing makes a girl more jealous than another girl or two lol good luck man
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    Default Re: Girl teasing me or just playing hard to get?

    Quote Originally Posted by Hopeful33 View Post
    yes i have and there are different situations but it sounds like she likes you but wants to be with the other guy more. so you should just go out and start new with a few other girls. if you still want her nothing makes a girl more jealous than another girl or two lol good luck man
    right i understand, but like she's breaking up with this guy in a few weeks (she met him europe...summer fling)

    do you think this changes thing?
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    Default Re: Girl teasing me or just playing hard to get?

    did she tell you that she was?
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: Girl teasing me or just playing hard to get?

    Quote Originally Posted by Hopeful33 View Post
    did she tell you that she was?
    Yeah i mean obviously she could have been lying to me in the hopes that id chase her more but lets assume its true...
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