No idea what to say , needs some help.
Girl : Is an 8 , gets attention from guys , is DTF for the right guy and is very open about sexuality with about everyone. Also quite intelligent ...which is a major turn on.Also kinda a c*cktease maybe the kind that puts up major shit tests...not sure yet
Pretense(3 weeks ago):
Met her at a friends place , had some drinks with the whole group of them and had what I thought was an amazing conversation. was never just the two of us though...always the entire group. Entire conversation was sexualised.....but with everyone , so I think she is just an open person.
Was extremely attracted to her , negged her quite a bit (saying her name doesnt suit her...neither does the sun glasses she wore)
Got her number (which she gave to me , saying hey "dont think its going to be anything sexual", to which I replied .."ofcourse")
Made sure I was cocky funny when dealing with her and throwing negs , so it didnt seem to harsh. Also displayed confidance and nonchalance...
Middle Phase(last week) :
Messaged her the next day saying something along the lines of "hey girl whose name doesnt suit her....had a good time last night should meet up again"
She didnt reply. Added her on Facebook....she didnt accept friends request.I left it...withdrew friend request
One of my friends that was there with me the first night got a message from her to come out about 2 weeks later. He went there thinking she liked him , she spent little time with him and hooked up with another random guy. She is kinda a cocktease it seems...On going there , she told him that she and her friend found me to be "pretentious" (confidence without reason). Not quite arrogant...but bordering on that line.
Messaged her again saying :
"Dont know whose number this is and YEAH i messaged YOU first but Id like to know who this is , before i remove this number from my phone "
She replied back about an hour later saying " Its Rara , the girl whose name doesnt suit her"
I replied back about 3 hours later saying "nah still dont recall....are you the girl whose sunglasses dont suit her either nah jokes ... Anywa my apologies if my demeanor came of a bit arrogant that nigh , wasnt my intention"
She replies today(roughly 12 hours later) saying :
"You didn't come off arrogant...Just a little....fucked. ha ha ha"
I have no idea what to say. it seems like my cocky funny comes of as arrogant yet I dont want to seem like im working to hard to win her approval....yet I can see the interest just isnt there at this point.
Advice on where to go from here?