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    Exclamation ok.....i need to close this chick.....its killing me

    i posted a thread a few weeks ago because im trying to f close this female friend of mine from uni....we are really good friends but there has always been attraction there. so i was at her house for a few days about 2 weeks ago and managed to get a handjob and finger her (please excuse the language ).

    however when i tried to go down on her she pushed me away and said she wasnt like the other girls iv been with and shes a good girl. didnt matter what i done i couldnt budge her on it.......so i froze her out and it still didnt work.

    so i left her house a failure but it hasnt changed anything in our friendship which is good. anyways we are both now back in the same city for uni and i spent the day with her today. however because the dynamic in our relationship hasnt really changed i couldnt make a move at all due to lack of opportunity...sure lots of hugs etc but never felt that 'move in for the kiss sparkle' if you know what i mean.

    right...we are getting there guys i promise lol. basically when i broke up with my gf i had already booked a posh hotel in london for the two of us, now obv because we broke up we aint going so im taking this girl instead.

    yes she knows it was meant for me and my ex and we are publicly going under the 'just friends' alias. however after what has happened recently im hoping to close here. this is in just over a weeks time. sooo my question is......any advice for how to be before we go, so for the next week? and any advice for how to ensure that i close at the hotel in london? major apologies for the long post...but its complicated lol.

    linking x

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    Default Re: ok.....i need to close this chick.....its killing me

    well she doesnt want to be a one night stand. so that might be what is stopping here for going to far with you. in london take her to a nice place to eat. i think regardless she wants to know that you either want a relationship or just friends with benefits either way you might have to talk about it with her
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: ok.....i need to close this chick.....its killing me

    its strange though because we kind of mess about like that, and then its normal the next day, neither of us really bring it up, i dont know maybe whether she just feels weird about it lol

    linking x

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    Default Re: ok.....i need to close this chick.....its killing me

    then just go for it. Get her alone watch a movie and make a move. go big or go home. if you want it to do anything either talk to her about it or make a move
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: ok.....i need to close this chick.....its killing me

    yeah i made the move already though, i got a certain way and for some reason she wont let me go any further....how do i blast through that LMR?

    linking x

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    Default Re: ok.....i need to close this chick.....its killing me

    You may want to try qualification and some rapport building. She has to know that she is special to you. Learn what you can about qualification and SOIs and make sure to escalate on HER high points rather than yours. If she says or does something meaningful THEN escalate with an "You're amazing" type statement. Then build a connection with her by showing her that you understand her world and she understands yours.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: ok.....i need to close this chick.....its killing me

    well you could really turn her on it would be harder for her to say no to you.
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: ok.....i need to close this chick.....its killing me

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-pick-up...must-read.html

    you should check this out, i think it might be helpful for you to deal with her lmr


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