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    hey guys,
    im really good friends with this girl and i really like her. we get along really well but i dont know what to do to make a move. im definitely to far in the friend zone with her. im even sharing a locker with her (her idea). i feel like im hanging around her a little to much and when im around her im definitely not playing it right, she laughs and we get along great, but its too banterful!! what should i do?
    also were going out this weekend and i want to kiss close.
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    Default Re: need help with this girl at school

    Start flirting more seriously and use push/pull. I would use statements like "Wow its great that you are _____, but I feel like we wouldn't work out." If she calls out "I never said i wanted you." just laugh and say "My point exactly." You have to increase the sexual tension before you make a move. So keep qualifying her by telling her why you two wouldn't work together while you escalate physically.
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    Default Re: need help with this girl at school

    Batman's right, push-pull. De-angelo has some good stuff on how to work that dynamic.

    Friend zone is not as scary in high school as later in life. Girls become friends with boy's they're interested in because they aren't as experienced to be agressive. She may just be waiting for you to make a more direct move.

    The other thing to do is to turn the frame around playfully to ramp it up a bit. Things like "I totally saw you checking me out" if she's waiting for you at the locker, and "hey stop feeling me up" if she rubs up against you. These are pretty innocent flirting techniques that make a girl wonder and open it up to more direct flirting that you can roll with
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