This is my first thread so bare with me. I am married and my relationship has been sexless for years. This has forced me to seek enjoyment outside of my marriage. I am having very little success until recently.
I connected with a woman on an online classified CL where I responded to her post. We hit it off right away and chemistry was instant even though we had never met face to face. Within 2 weeks I discovered her age 27 and it threw me back a few steps, I am 54. Twice her age literally. After a few weeks of calls and emails she told me she loved me? Very exciting for me as well.
She is married as am I and we initially determined we did not want to change that. He tone changed and she wanted me to leave my spouse and leave my life behind to be with her and she would leave her husband as well. The thought of a young gal to come home to excited me but common sense told me this was not a good set up for me and it could never work. I broke off the connection and she was devastated.
Now I feel guilty and have an urge to follow up and reconnect, my urges are overriding my guy feeling that this needed to end I was wise to walk away. I am wondering if I did the right thing and if anyone else has encountered this type of roller coaster ride in finding a lady to fill the gaps missing at home.