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    silverback57 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    This is my first thread so bare with me. I am married and my relationship has been sexless for years. This has forced me to seek enjoyment outside of my marriage. I am having very little success until recently.

    I connected with a woman on an online classified CL where I responded to her post. We hit it off right away and chemistry was instant even though we had never met face to face. Within 2 weeks I discovered her age 27 and it threw me back a few steps, I am 54. Twice her age literally. After a few weeks of calls and emails she told me she loved me? Very exciting for me as well.

    She is married as am I and we initially determined we did not want to change that. He tone changed and she wanted me to leave my spouse and leave my life behind to be with her and she would leave her husband as well. The thought of a young gal to come home to excited me but common sense told me this was not a good set up for me and it could never work. I broke off the connection and she was devastated.

    Now I feel guilty and have an urge to follow up and reconnect, my urges are overriding my guy feeling that this needed to end I was wise to walk away. I am wondering if I did the right thing and if anyone else has encountered this type of roller coaster ride in finding a lady to fill the gaps missing at home.

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    Default Re: She is crazy about me

    you need to forget about the afair and go back to your loving wife!! it is your job to maintain your relationship with her, you should take her out on dates,flirt with her and use lots of kino. bring romance back into the relationship and the sex will come back as well. i have never been married but thats what i would do if i were in your predicament

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    Default Re: She is crazy about me

    Thank you for your interest and response but you assume a bit much. Loving wife is not totally the case here my friend. Did you hear sexless? Can I add selfish, demanding, controlling, non supportive and negative to name a few. But after 30+ years together the loss of a lifetime of work and sacrifice outweighs the idea of fidelity being a key component in a marriage. After you have been married for 30+ years and hopefully never allow it to mutate into what I have you will better understand my situation. I appreciate your insights but I was looking for advice on the young lady not marraige counseling. I am open to hearing more on either topic though if you want to discuss it further.
    Last edited by silverback57; 09-05-2012 at 12:23 PM. Reason: spelling

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    Default Re: She is crazy about me

    you are left with two choices, if you want the young lady, then you should deffenetly start talking to her again, if she gets upset about you not talking to her for however long you went nc, just tell her you were feeling guilty about the whole affair thing,and you've made up your mind that its not such a bad thing. don't sound too needy,but get the point accross that you want her almost as much as your wife,you can play a good jealousy vibe if your careful and use it to make her hunger to be around you. if you want your wife back then you should start running game on her. unfortunately you can only have one or the other. either stay with your wife, or stay with your gf


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