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Thread: confused please help me

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    hi, i've been looking at this forum for quite awhile but never made an account but here it is haha.....well anyways there is this girl that i met awhile ago when i was in 8th grade i found her on facebook like a month ago and just started talking to her one day got to the point where i was gonna ask for her number then she posted a pic of herself. i wouldn't have called it slutty if what i was reading wasn't there this guy called her a slut and she replied back yes, iguess. this threw me off and i posted "nice to know u think so highly of yourself". she liked my comment! i was like wtf. so i deleted her but now i'm feeling weird because i honestly think she was the first girl i had been fully attracted to...idk what to do and i'm probably gonna be transferring schools soon and the new school is where she goes. can anyone help me plz

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    Default Re: confused please help me

    You un-friended her because it "got wierd" I'm guessing?? You gotta keep a cool nom-reactiveness to whetever she does. Liking you calling her a low-standard slut was all in fun and games (plus it was her accepting a neg).

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    Default Re: confused please help me

    thx, i guess i over reacted but what should i do now?

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    Default Re: confused please help me

    Autismus he didn't call her a slut, someone else did.

    He is right about the non-reactiveness. You didn't have to unfriend her, but I think its great you actually have standards. More than alot of guys. Having standards will skyrocket your game and will entice women to try and meet them. So next time, you don't have to unfriend her, just send a "Smh" message or something that displays that you were turned off. There's a concept called "active disinterest" which states you should be in her presence displaying your disinterest in her rather than disappearing hoping she will notice. She will likely not notice since she always has guys on her.

    Keep those standards and when you finally bump into her maybe she will ask why you deleted her off FB. It will show you are a man with standards, therefore a man of value.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: confused please help me

    thx alot i was kinda nervous bout transferring but what if i end up not transferring what could i do from there? i said i might be transferring

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    Default Re: confused please help me

    If you have an chance to look at her pro or pix just make it seem like she said or did something that caught your interest and will possibly friend her again because of it. Have a reason other than she's hot. Remember she has to earn your interest and you have to let her know she is slowly winning you over.
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    Default Re: confused please help me

    could i say something like " i tried not being attracted to you but it didn't work. your to damn cute."?

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    Default Re: confused please help me

    I don't really like that one. It kinda lays the interest in her hand. Something more like, "I cant believe you did X, ok you're back on my friend list"

    Maybe she was just playing too when she liked the slut comment. Girls just like the attention. If you were interested, enjoy the game of it and see. Seemed a little rash. Agreed its good you aren't just out there to get what you can, but you didn't have enough to put together all of it.

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