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    luckoftheirish54 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Need help on my end game. Trying to pick up a waitress at a Sports bar.

    Hey hey

    So, here's the situation. I live in a college town (UVA), but I'm more for a quiet (relatively speaking) sports bar. The sports bar I go to is a restaurant/bar during the day, and then turns into a bar at night. Well, one of the waitresses that works there, and then sometimes drinks there after work, has caught my eye. I've been going there for the past 2 weeks. I've talked to her before...so it's not like she hasn't seen me nor talked to me...and I've made sure to make friends with the guy bartenders...basical ly just being a friendly guy. A lot of the workers there tend to drink there...so it's a great opportunity to get myself known.

    Anyways, last night I was drinking there...and spent most of my time outside in the smokers area (she smokes too...so I don't think that will be a problem). I met several people that are regulars at this place. 2 of them were females that knew this girl. There was a guy involved with the convo as well...and he was telling me to just go up to her while she was waitressing....I guess he knows her too. Now...those two chicks said they would put in a good word for me...but I have no idea if they have...or would remember to do so. I don't even know if that would be a good idea.

    So, my problem is...how do I go up to this girl and ask her on a date...or just to go out and do something? My end game sucks. I have no problem going up to chicks and starting a convo with them...and my middle game is good...as I'm naturally flirty.....but my end game sucks. I can never never either get a girl to go home with me that night...or get her number so I can call her later in the week/weekend.

    So I need some advice!!!! There's more to the story...but I figured I would keep it short for now and if you guys have any questions...I'll answer them as best as I can remember.

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    Default Re: Need help on my end game. Trying to pick up a waitress at a Sports bar

    If you're mid game is good, the end game is easy. All you have to do is say "Hey you wanna hang out sometime?" It's not the most powerful closer, but its the easiest, and if you've gotten a connection, it works.

    That said my hired gun game sucks. I read body language like a pro, but girls who get money from flirting with you, have a completely different shield up i've never gotten used to.

    Closing is slightly better if you imbed an idea, during conversation find something she's interested in, tell her about the coolest kayaking spot you found, or the best comedy club in town. If its common ground, tell her you'll take her sometime, then just hand her your phone with the number pad pulled up. Don't ask, just hand it to her. After the next meeting is implied you never want to confirm "can I have your number", its assumed at that point, just pull up the keypad and hand them your phone, they'll put it in. Never fails.
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    luckoftheirish54 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Need help on my end game. Trying to pick up a waitress at a Sports bar

    So, I went out last night. Ended up getting that girls number. Basically small talked with her, and then when things quieted down...I just asked her to go out sometime...not sure when...but I'll see her again sometime. She gave me her number without me even asking for it...so I take that as a good sign....maybe...lol.

    I just texted her this afternoon....no text back yet...but she might be in school or....working...so now....on to the waiting game. Will be hard to sit and wait for a reply.


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