Re: The Most Important Tip in PUA Is Your Energy
Haha you just answered my question as to why I was falling flat on my ass the other night when I was out gaming with a wing who was a bad wingman, I'm not going to sugarcoat that. But in the build up to the night I was on a near 12 hour shift at work and I had literally an hour to get ready before going to the club.
I have been in the game literally as long as you have, 2 months, and I'm normally good but I get a bit of AA in crowded and loud conditions but on this night I had none of that and every target I aimed at was a HB8+. I was fairly unlucky as well, 3 of the 8 targets I was gaming had legit boyfriends but where still interested in me but alas they had boyfriends and giggled hard when I said "Aww that's cute you have a boyfriend, it's no problem though, he can make us breakfast in the morning." I accidentally miss calibrated one target when I thought she had a necklace on, turns out she was wearing nothing like that and that messed up the whole set.
But I did feel I was missing that energy and the fact I was tired was not helping me aswell. My game plan for night game is similar to you: Open, hook (best friends test if 2+ set), neg, where are you from, tease (push-pull), what do you do (say work is boring to move on to fun stuff at which point I will DHV), run the cube, a cold read to qualify them then carry on from their with more games and comfort build then number close.
The problem on this night was I got most of my targets to the cube which they would be hooked but one set my wing had no make a smarmy comment saying to my target "Do you even know what's going on" which put me down because that was point of the cube :/. 2 targets I was hooking in because they where fixated on me had their friend on both occasions come over and literally grab them away even though they wanted to stay and chat (jealous fat friends if I might add).
But I don't like making excuses so I think my energy and charisma was below par on the night. Might take your tip and drink a can of monster ripper before I go out but I wouldn't be on overtime like I was on that night again
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