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    Default Guys I need help!

    Alright fellas, a girl and I text for 2 days and on day two we went out (last night). She had "a lot of fun", as she said to me and agreed that we should see each other again. Honestly guys, the night couldn't have gone any better. She was relaxed, the conversation was flowing, I had her laughing, but most importantly.. I know she was into me. I took her home and left, I wasn't on the road for 5 minutes and I get a text from her initiating a new conversation.

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    It got late last night and she said good night to me and that I should text her tomorrow (today). So this morning I woke up and had a good morning text from her, I text good morning back & made fun of her for having to get up earlier than me. She text back "", so I said, "All smiles! So how are classes going?" then that was it.. for 3 hours. So I text her "holy crap that was intense" of course I got a text back, "what?". I made up some bs story, then nothing... it's been hours and she hasn't text me back. Like I said before guys, yesterday was some of my best work (I could have done more kino, but still). I just don't understand what's happening. Did she catch herself and realize that she liked me?

    I'm going to give her until tomorrow evening, then give her a call.

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    Default Re: I don't know what's happening

    You probably shouldn't have texted her again when she didn't respond to you asking how her classes were going. There was nothing to gain by putting effort into re-engaging her. She's into you and you say you had a good date...then just relax and CALM DOWN. Just be careful not to overtext and DLV yourself. She should be working to get your attention, not the other way around. You are a busy guy with lots of options and a ton going on in your life. If you're texting and pandering to a girl all day than she knows she has you...you need her to feel like she needs to work and gain your attention...you need to keep her investing in you, not the other way around.

    Just let things sit with her. If she doesn't text or engage you in any way for the next few days, than you can go ahead and text/call her first.

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    Default Re: I don't know what's happening

    I know, I paniced. Lesson learned though. I'll give her a few data like you said, then maybe call her on Sunday or Monday depending on if she texts me or not... or if I care haha. It just bugs me because I'm not sure why she went all bipolar on me.

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    Default Re: I don't know what's happening

    Hey Bimmer,

    I wouldn't worry too much about this girl. I personally despise texting because of the impossibility to notice emotional nuances and feelings. From what you said it seems she is very interested in you, so play it cool. The reason she didn't respond to your text may be because she was busy and didn't notice it or saw it and didn't have time to text back and forgot about it. I have accidentally not responded to people because of the latter, but it isn't personal.

    You got a good morning text from her. She is into you. Take a few days off of contacting her. Who knows, she may even text you first.

    Good luck!

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    Default Re: I don't know what's happening

    I hate texting too, it's complete bs. I even told her that I hate texting haha. I'm going to wait until Sunday then call her on my way home from work.

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    Default Re: I don't know what's happening

    Yes you cannot possibly know what she is thinking from a lack of text. Some people are just sporadic. Can't read too much into it or let it affect your game.

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    Default Re: I don't know what's happening

    Some people are sporadic, but I was use to her texting me back every 5 minutes at most haha. I was the one putting her on a wait. It's just odd. As for letting it affect my game, I have a breakfast date with a different girl tomorrow(today), so it's not slowing me down. I'd love to see her again though...


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