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    BigJoeTrucking is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default My ex contacted me. Now what?

    After four months, she dumped me hardcore for a new guy and just wants to be friends. It's so painful when she talks about this other guy, and she used to say she loved me everyday and I was the greatest boyfriend ever.

    I took advice from this board and did the "no contact" rule with her. 7 days have gone by and she unblocked me on Facebook. Then she called me today (I did not answer) and right after she sent me a text saying she has a DVD of mine and if I want it back.

    I can't take getting hurt again. What does this mean? What do I do next? If she doesn't want to get back together, hearing her voice is only going to hurt me. What do I do now?

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    Default Re: My ex contacted me. Now what?

    Hey Bud, you know what you have to do. Even though it's going to hurt you need to let go. Its the only way trust me you'll find someone better! Now then get the DVD and say thanks be as emotionless as possible and get on with your life. We give you this advice because at one time or another we all experienced the same ordeal.
    Last edited by pua_wannabe; 09-07-2012 at 06:53 PM. Reason: editting and addition
    Take her off that farking pedestal!

    “The truth does not change according to our ability to stomach it.”
    ― Flannery O'Connor

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    Default Re: My ex contacted me. Now what?

    I highly recommend staying away. At least for now. Anything she says or does can throw you off. You are in a delicate spot right now so I wouldn't even respond. Just get another DVD if you can or wait about a month or two while you get yourself situated.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    BigJoeTrucking is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: My ex contacted me. Now what?

    Thank you, guys. I really appreciate getting expert advice at the time I need it.


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