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Thread: Mutual friend figured out I'm a PUA :/

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    Default Mutual friend figured out I'm a PUA :/

    Ok so tonight I met some people that moved into he uni flat opposite me through my mates gf. They were guys but I've got so used to acting relaxed and stuff, open body language etc and was messing with this guy saying since he's he only other single guy he has to wingman me soo we hit he clubs, I walked in and immediately opened a 3 set of hot blondes, didn't really get too far was at the bar, ran and ESP test on them, got my drink and ejected.

    So I go and sit with the people I'm with again and this guy leans over and says 'I've got you pegged'

    So of course I don't know what he's on about only my best mate from home not uni knows about me doing PUA stuff, then this guy is like
    'your into that PUA stuff aren't you?'

    I denied it for a bit but he was right he had me pegged, noticed the whole relaxed body language, the ESP test, the immediate approach etc, anyways he says he tried it for a week and f closed 4 girls......obv bs but still, he then said he thinks it's morally wrong and doesn't use it no more.

    This is a lie, he is blatantly he a PUA I was with him all night and it's sooooo obvious :L but anyway he's a bit of a d1ck and real competitive, and I kinda stole some polish girl off him because he was not getting anywhere and being and arse to me, so I k closed her. I was drunk and it was a mistake, but I'm worried he's going to tell everyone that I'm using PUA material.......anyon e else ever had this problem?

    Ohhhh and btw frankie from the Saturday's was in the club tonight.....don't know if they have hit the states yet but they are massive here....Google them.....I didn't really get anywhere but I was proud of myself anyway as I approached and ran the rings game on her, ot some minor kino and a few laughs so I was happy lol just thought I'd mention it anyways apologies for the long post but I'm still quite drunk and I waffle when I'm drunk........night fellas......let me know if you have any suggestions for this guy

    Linking x

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    Default Re: Mutual friend figured put I'm a PUA :/

    Ahhhhhh I accidentally posted it twice somehow

    [Admin: I fixed it for ya]

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    Default Re: Mutual friend figured put I'm a PUA :/

    just relax, he was probably as drunk as you are, he may or may not remember even saying that to you,as for the "moraly wrong" thing all pua realy is is exelerating a proccess known as socialization, it is a lifelong proccess that happens in everyones life weather they are a pua or not. it is the proccess by wich we adapt to our society,you should look at a sociology class book if you don't beleive me

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    Default Re: Mutual friend figured out I'm a PUA :/

    Admit it. Not a big deal. Lieing or exaggerating about it is more a fundamental mistake. PUA is not some hideous behavior, it is about improving yourself as a product. Utilizing canned material is like being a salesman to women, you obviously will get called out on it. Once you develop, you enhance the qualities women seek, become more interesting by going out more, you enhance the product...yourself. And reliance on canned material goes out the window.

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    Default Re: Mutual friend figured out I'm a PUA :/

    Hey bro. Like Chet said, don't deny it, you are an alpha male and are not apologetic for who you are or anything you do. In fact, it can work as a sort of DHV, or at least brings some curiosity. I went to a house party once and walk talking to this guy about some PUA stuff when I just got into it. His gf was there too and from then I got IOIs from her. I think I works because it shows you understand women, it's an interest and it intrigues them an they're stunned how much is true. Also, it can be a good thing if they know about your techniques be suss they don't think it will work because they know, so they drop their defences. The more they know, the more it works.

    Good luck, mate .

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    Default Re: Mutual friend figured out I'm a PUA :/

    Her are a c couple qualities of the confident, 'cool' male.

    The confident, cool guy, doesn't bring other guys down, and he does this because he's not threatened by them.

    Rather, he brings these guys who could possibly be threatened by him, up to his level, and that in and of itself makes him more alpha, and more cool.

    Don't be ashamed of the fact that you're a PUA, but rather show these guys how you used what you've learned to attain success, (you said yourself they claimed to be PUA's, but failed miserably at practicing it). Help them (if they're receptive to that), and possibly show them how to improve their game, and as a result, I think you'll find them looking up to you.

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    Default Re: Mutual friend figured out I'm a PUA :/

    Cheers for all the replies guys, been off the forums for a couple of weeks, hence the lack of reply

    Linking x

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    Default Re: Mutual friend figured out I'm a PUA :/

    First off, Awesome work with Frankie! She's my fave member of Saturdays (even though i never heard her music lol). I hope it was really her and not just your drunk goggles playing tricks on you lol!

    I had a similar thing happen with a friend. I just mentioned how men should be unaffected by the outcome when meeting women. The dude must of went to google or something because the next time i see him he mentions that i must be into PUA (he used the the abbreviation no less). At first i didnt realize he said it, so i was able to pretend i didnt know. We never discussed it again.

    I think AFC believe knowing your Basic techniques makes them feel sooo superior. It makes them feel like they have an advantage over you. What they absolutely FAIL to realize is that PUA stuff isnt magic. It takes work to figure out. Just knowing about negs doesnt make u a master. They need to actually see it in action and use it. They need to see how negs work with rapport, comfort etc... how to find the balance between all these things. They believe knowledge is enough... which is AFC TO THE EXTREME.

    And when they see u STILL get results using PUA stuff even though they know what your doing they get jealous and frustrated and probably will badmouth u behind your back
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    Default Re: Mutual friend figured out I'm a PUA :/

    you know " telling girls you help afc approach girls and understand women is DHV right" who cares just say you want to help people because men wont even approach a girl anymore.

    I use this twice and K-closed
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.


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