I didnt put words in your mouth... not at all.
I stated my example at the outset (the woman does not live close to you and might not hear about your good time). Following this line of thought, the tendency may be to describe your fun to show her what she missed out on. Of course, you can do this to some extent, but most guys try to hard and do it in a way that is too approval seeking (since she does not know your friends).
I'm talking in generalizations when I say "you."