I know the usual consensus is no.... but do you think it ever might be productive to call a girl out on flaky behavior?
Ive got this girl that ive slept with a few times, kind of died out, but still contacts me ocassionally, sets up plans, sounds excited, then the day of flakes or dosnt respond etc.
Ive kind of written her off, and dont generally initiate contact with her, but its anoying because id like to see her. So far ive never called her out, but this has gone on too long now.
This weekend she said "we should definatly hang out saturday :-)" and then when icontacted her the day of.. no response.
Im thinking of texting her ssomething today like "what happened to you last night, were you abducted by aliens and throughly probed?" Or some joke text... not really appearing pissed. Then seeing if shed redeem herself by meeting up today.
Good idea or bad?