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    john117 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need help on next step after make-out and follow up text.

    Hey PUA's,

    I just joined up here recently to seek advice on this situation I find myself in.

    So I met this girl at a party on Friday and I as far as I could tell she was in to me. We made out for a while on the dance floor and then grabbed some drinks and moved away from the party. We talked for a while on some steps that were next to the location. We probably talked for about half an hour or so, after which she wanted to go find her roommate at which point I said, "Ok give me your number and you go find your roommate. Ill text you later."

    So I leave the party a little while later and text her the next evening saying how I had a good time, hope she got home safe and that it was nice meeting her. She then texts me back the next day in the afternoon saying she got home fine, thanked me for asking and that it was nice meeting me as well.

    So my question is whether or not this girl is still interested and what my next step should be.

    Thanks.

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    john117 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need help on next step after make-out and follow up text.

    C'mon guys, 78 views and not even 1 reply. Help a guy out.

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    Default Re: Need help on next step after make-out and follow up text.

    Apologies no one has responded. Feel free to PM one of the top guys to see if they can take a look at your post next time.

    When you spoke for a half hour was it just fluff talk? How was your teasing? And an easy step to miss, but extremely important...did you qualify her?

    Well so far you haven't encountered resistant. Start a text or phone convo and gauge how she responds. Then calibrate accordingly. If she seems standoffish then go back to teasing and rapport breaking. Basically you're back in the attraction phase according to Mystery Method.

    Also don't underestimate the power of simple texts. You don't need long clever texts. It still conveys neediness if you send 3 sentences of something cleverly funny and her only response is "Lol."
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."


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