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    Hey guys long story short. There was a girl in my college class that i became friends with. I didnt pursue her because she had a bf of 5 years. So we graduated and i decided to hit her up a couple months later asking her how she has been. She said good and that she broke up with her bf. So i asked if she wanted to hang out. we met up great time gave her a kiss on the cheek. Hung out a few more times just made out thats about it and one night she asked me if i wanted to meet up to grab dinner with her fam i said sure so i met her fam. All goes well but now this is where it falls apart... her parents went away she invited me over he place to chill nothing happened we made out that was it i left. She went out with her gfs last night for her b day. didnt hear from her all night which isnt normal. She text me later after i decided to ask her how the night is going. She said good and she will call me once she gets into bed that night. never received a phone call. Next day comes dont hear from her again odd since she normally texts me. I call her ask her how the night went last night we spoke for a few minutes then she said im pumping gas ill call you back. Never received a call or text. WTF is that? i didnt even do anything wrong is it normal out of no where for a girl to just dead you like that? And here i thought everything was going well. So i got pissed off and just deleted her off my phone. She is constantly going out with her gfs she said she is busy but she is busy either going to bars with her gfs or whatever. So whats the deal she i just say screw it and stop talking to her or what? I dont get how we can go from talking to nothing and i didnt even do anything wrong............

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    Default Re: Continue pursuing this girl or bail?

    calm down, she likes you, but you need to keep your guard up,girls do this sort of stuff all the time, its a test to get you to persue her, don't! if she stops talking to you for a day, just wait two days and then start talking to her again. no matter what happens keep your composure and stay calm, cool, and collective

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    Default Re: Continue pursuing this girl or bail?

    thanks i dont get it. the other guy she was talking to before me she told me that they saw each other all the time and she got tired of it. Maybe he invited himself over.So i dont ask because i dont want to fall into that lol. But like didnt she have to agree to see him all the time ? she sees me like once a week and we live 15 min apart. She is going away for a week and i wanted to see her before she went. sshe asked me today what i was doing and i said i was at the mall which is basically right next door to her house and she didnt invite me over to say hi. and she leaves tomorrow idk whatever.

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    Default Re: Continue pursuing this girl or bail?

    sometimes a girl will be seeing two guys at once,don't be surprised if he's her boyfriend she didn't tell you about because she felt guilty about cheating on him and didn't want to make you feel guilty about causing her to cheat. just go nc for the week and then ask her how her trip was when she gets back

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    Default Re: Continue pursuing this girl or bail?

    You're fine but stop doing ALL the chasing...if necessary freeze her out for a couple of days and maybe invite her to go do something you're ALREADY doing...make it exciting and BE the source of her fun.

    You haven't blown anything and all this is, is a sh!t test...(which is good because it means she's starting to like you)...just ignore it stop being "too available"

    Good luck bro!
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    Default Re: Continue pursuing this girl or bail?

    Thanks guys she is leaving tues on sept 11 and she is flying out so she is buggin lol. I did want to see her before she went. I'm taking the train tomorrow which is right near her house and I was thinking telling her that I'm taking the train and maybe after work I can stop by and say goodbye to her before she leaves. What are your thoughts?

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    Default Re: Continue pursuing this girl or bail?

    that seems pretty try-hard, just text her or somethin she'll be back and you can game her then, just freeze her out for the week like shoreguy said, just make sure you ask her about her "vacation" when she gets back, have some general/funny questions about her time prepared for the next time you see her. she is likely attracted to you, you are just too attracted to her, give her some space


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