Re: Problems transitioning to conversation
firstly, start by reading lots of field reports on these forums.. they help a LOT..
secondly, (btw nice game you do with your friends :P, i play it with my m8s as well hehe)
after the opener,
try making an immediate 'false time constraint' like : "I can only stay for a minute, but.." and use body rocking to create the impression that you are really about to leave..
now you need to make her attracted to you.. so DHV (humor, esp routine, or a small magic trick [dw if it fails, it can get her to laugh anyways])
that way you are the one leading the conversation to where you want and not just ' fluff '..
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