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Thread: 50 Shades of Grey, Should we or n0t?

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    Question 50 Shades of Grey, Should we or n0t?

    Hi Guys,

    With all the hype of the 50 Shades of Grey by E.L. James, I heard alot of reviews and lots of it recommend men should read it aswell. So I was wondering is it benefical to read this book? Would it help me or my game in anyway?

    Thank you

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    Default Re: 50 Shades of Grey, Should we or n0t?

    yes read it ! if you can talk about a book with a girl especially 50 shades she will melt
    im on a different level

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    Makes sense! Due to the fact that m0st women read it. My 1st thought that it was plot for married women to spice the marriage abit.

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    Default Re: 50 Shades of Grey, Should we or n0t?

    its uh ... for mature girls lol but yes if they ever bring it up and you actually know something about it they will smile. oh and also easy way to make it sexual that is what the whole book is about lol use it to your advantage
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: 50 Shades of Grey, Should we or n0t?

    I tested it out. I didnt read the book just mentioned the title in office populated by females and had all there attention and spoke to them with out even mentioning content of the book. Unfortunetly there wasnt anyone I wanted to game but was great for practice especially that it was in a r0om full off complete strangers.

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    Default Re: 50 Shades of Grey, Should we or n0t?

    I actually mentioned "50 Shades" in my online dating profile ...
    Talk about a chick magnet!!!

    That alone probably tripled the amount of messages girls sent me, than if I wouldn't have mentioned it.

    If you can incorporate something that's a current "hot topic" into your game, you'll absolutely have better results. It gives you an easy subject to talk about for a few minutes & breaks the ice.
    Then you can transition into whatever else you feel like.

    But the GREAT thing about using "50 Shades" when you're chatting with girls is, the books are sensual & sexual. (And THAT eliminates her shield & allows her to be comfortable discussing sexual topics).



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    Default Re: 50 Shades of Grey, Should we or n0t?

    I have my dating headline as '50 shades of Dave', so it's easy for women to see and relate to plus hopefully it's not being used by everyone!

    This is exactly what I was discussing about in the subjects thread the other day too. If there is a book like this, or films, and we know a little about it, we can discuss this with women possibly have more material including scope for jokes. I do think it's best to understand women as much as possible so that we can approach with their side in mind as well as our own.

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    Default Re: 50 Shades of Grey, Should we or n0t?

    This is just my opinion as a girl that is into BDSM and doesn't read the book. Firstly, its a book that was written for vanilla heterosexual wives who wanted to spice up their life with a semi-dirty and lite bondage story. More than just your average harlequin novel. Secondly, even though it is JUST a story I find it portrays the BDSM community in a really negative manner. The guy in the book has some serious control issues and almost an Oedipus complex with his mother which is why he take so much pleasure in beating the girl. In REAL life BOTH consenting parties of the relationship or scene agree on certain levels of pain and physicality and build up trust (not just signing a contract and beating the s*** out of a girl for his sadistic pleasure)

    Like I have said, I haven't read the book but I have read summaries and talked about it with my friends who have read it. The quality of writing is actually decent but its really just a typical love story with an inaccurate BDSM twist. If the reason you want to read it is because you are curious about the BDSM lifestyle or bedroom fun, their are plenty of other books out there to get you comfortable with that side of yourself and how to get started.

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    Default Re: 50 Shades of Grey, Should we or n0t?

    ive read the back cover of the book.

    i dont ever care to talk about the book with a girl, but i definitely want to remind the girl of the book.

    pulling on their hair, grabbing their arms and putting them against the wall, just taking control an being rough. girls love it.


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