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    kidsinatra is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Advice for mind f#%king

    So I met a girl 6-7 ish months ago, we were in a relationship and everything was going good, when the semester ended, one night we were out together, she ditched me without any words and said nothing to me.*
    A week later she texted me, I'm sorry, it wasn't you, it was me.*
    I'm 99.9% sure (I'm 100% sure) she met a guy she saw as far higher value than me that night that was playing all of his cards right, so she completely ditched me and went with him.*

    I went through catatonic depression, went through multiple therapy sessions, and was sitting on the verge of suicide for months.*

    After reading parts of the MM and magic bullets, listening to love systems lectures and watching video presentations from the seminars, and going to the gym and 'upgrading my style' a lot, I regained my self confidence.*

    We were never supposed to see eachother again, as she was supposed to move away.*

    When I walked into one of my classes and saw her, I felt a black hole forming in my stomach that I was sure would engulf the entire campus.*

    The good part: with my newfound style, confidence, body language, and knowledge, I portrayed the persona of an individual with profound value, social value, confidence, and most importantly, I Entirely disregarded her attempts at being unusually loud, and laughing unnecessarily loud with the intention of making her presence known in this class we're in together.*

    As she noticed her attempts at gettif my attention had ZERO effect on me, she quickly lost steam and quited down, and a couple weeks into this class, one night I receive a text from her saying she wants to talk, of I'm willing to talk to her. *(she also left me a drunk voicemail that night very drunkenly asking me to return her calls). I didn't.*

    A couple days later I agreed to talk to her, and the next day we met up.*

    She was profoundly nervous, an essentially babbled thoughtless compliments to me for 5 ish minutes.*
    She made the excuse that she wasn't prepared, and that she was making a lot of changes (but she said that with zero seriousness).*

    I gave her the Cajun face -mild arousal, more disinterest, and the look of understanding a joke she did't, and looking at her like she had poop on her face.*

    He asked me what I was thinking about and I said my calc class, with very little care/interest.*

    I told her 'why don't you go ahead and think this through a little more, and we'll try again later, but I'm going to class', I got up, and walked away.*
    She had a look of Extreme loss/disbelief as I did this.*

    Now, the next day, she's dressed up, all decked out, and got her hair all done up, as an attempt to build attraction in me (I assume).*

    She regularly tries to meet me with eye contact, and I look around her like she's not there.*

    I think its clear she wants me back.*

    I want to mind f*ck this girl because I believe what she did to me portrayed absolutely zero moral integrity.*

    What you'll you guys recommend?

    I was considering leading her on just enough to keep her frustrated for a good time. *

    I even considered walking up to her in the parking lot, gently pulling *her right oblique in I me with my left hand, brushing her hair over her left ear, and giving her a Really good kiss, (all she could ever want), and then whispering in her ear "you understand we can never be together".*
    Hugging her, and then walking away.*

    Please advise, and thanks in advance.*

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    Default Re: Advice for mind f#%king

    Dude don't... seriously. I do counseling and know how bad depression can get but u have nothing to gain. The key to being good with women is not caring if one doesnt like you. Screwing her over will gain you NOTHING. No positive vibes, no sex no LTR no chance to up your game... NOTHING. It will only create negative energy in your own life.

    I feel for u cuz i had a similar situation in my life with a girl. BUT what learned from that helped me become awesome now. Your girl did the same for u. For that reason alone, you should just lay off. Her being a jerk did help u in a way that you will never fully realize.
    Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship.
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    Default Re: Advice for mind f#%king

    Man i find it hard to believe that you need any advice brah!

    But I vote yes. Go ahead and do this thing if you are seriously done with her!

    The Cajun face thing is funny as hell. Consider it stolen.

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    Default Re: Advice for mind f#%king

    So in our last couple conversations she has been telling me she's a drunk and we should drink together.
    I told her twice that it wasn't a good idea.
    She then texted me at work today saying, 'we should drink tonight'.
    To which I replied 'aite'.

    Her intentions seem straight forward, and I could be wrong, but she probably wants to get drunk and have fun..

    This shows me a further lack in character, so, call me what you will, but I gave it to her.

    Yup.

    As she was pulling up in the driveway, I stopped her and said 'let's go grab something to drink'.

    She was preoccupied talking to her friend on the phone for half an hour, (i knew this friend and 'showed' that I 'enjoyed' overhearing the convo)(it isn't the first time, this is one of her best friends).

    Anyway, I used that as a distraction to drive us to the train station. When she realized where we were she asked me where I was taking her, and I told her "I'll give you a hint, but only one. As I pointed to the map of the transit system covering the entire area, I said 'somewhere on that map'. She liked it, and went with it because she knows I'm that guy.

    We ended up with front row seats to the local team's game, she was drunk and having an amazing time, but she knows I'm not into sports at all. Thus she was confused as to why we were there, because she wasn't into baseball either.

    So she's drunk, having an amazing time, cheering with the crowd, and as the home team wins and the entire stadium goes crazy, I say, 'c'mon, let's get up'.

    We walk down to the stairs leading to the field and strangely the security starts letting fans enter the field. (she's telling me "I've never been on a baseball field!!"), as we walk around and take pictures.

    We talk a little, then all the lights shut out, and BOOM!!!

    Fireworks show, which the entire time she's laying down on my chest, in between my legs.

    The show ends, we talk back to the train, meanwhile jovially cracking jokes with fellow fans (socially DHV-ing), get back to the train, and she falls asleep in my lap.

    She wakes up, we flirt and talk a little, and we end up getting home.

    As she's gathering her stuff out of my car, I tell her 'have a good night, drive safe', and she gives me this wicked 'seduction face' look.

    I smile at her, and walk straight to the door. I have a feeling she's going to remember this night.

    I'd like to believe she's blown away, considering her original intentions were to get drunk and whatever else meaningless b/s.

    Eh.

    What sucks though is there's really nothing in this for me except to think I can make her fall for me, but then what?? I can never make myself vulnerable to her again, let alone, all of the closest people to me would lose gratuitous amounts of respect for me just learning I went as far as I did.

    I'm babbling now, because I was playing the cool guy all night and only speaking when I had something witty, clever, or funny to say.

    Night guys.


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