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    Default Need help with my game in general.

    I have very little experience in approaching girls and having good conversations with them. I've texted a few but in person I'm usually pretty bad at it unless I'm hyper or if the girl is also outgoing, which makes me feel more comfortable. When I'm trying to talk to a girl I like, I suddenly have nothing to talk about and I'm scared to talk to them at all, but texting is fine and I'm pretty sure that makes me look very weak when I text them normally but in person I'm different and less talkative. I need advice on how to talk to girls and being comfortable and getting them to be fun. I really want to start dating girls as I've only had one and it lasted two years before she broke up with me, and that one started by her randomly asking ME for my number at church youth group; it ended relatively recently, so, naturally, as of right now, I have no game at all. Any advice would be appreciated, thanks.

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    Default Re: Need help with my game in general.

    'dont start running before you can walk m8..'

    start going out and just APPROACH people, and maybe say or ask them a small question just so you don't seem like a creep, but this test is just so you get over AA (since you mentioned you don't approach much)

    After you approached enough, and have no AA or few, than start thinking about the conversation, but remember, the conversation is only there so you Attract her to you, so don't ask stuff like 'come here often?' or 'it's hot today, don't you think?' or anything like those..
    you need to DHV yourself by using some routines like ESP, or make her laugh, or perform a small magic trick
    The Worst thing I can be is the same as everybody else. I'd Hate that!

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    Default Re: Need help with my game in general.

    i agree with bobat6 take it slow no one just becomes an expert over night. do some online thing like meetme or POF and work on your game there. after you get some success there use what you have learned and try to take it to the real world ask a question to the girl at the check out counter or something like that
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: Need help with my game in general.

    Both these guys are right.

    I'd also add - practice chit-chat. Just pure talking about nothing. When you're on a bus comment about the neigborhood to the person next to you, when you're in class make a joke about papercuts, at the book store make some cocky funny comment - this will help you gain confidence when in-set because you know that you can literally pull topics out of the situational air.

    And the training wheels of a few personalized, scripted DHV routines/stories don't hurt either. I still use them for common questions (where you from? what do you do? what do you study? etc) or when I'm feeling lazy :P
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