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Thread: Recovery needed after total wuss out!

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    Default Recovery needed after total wuss out!

    Hi, hoping I'm posting in right place here, new to this forum! Basically I'm needing some recovery advice. I've been playing the online dating sites, few dates etc. Been on a couple of dates with a girl, gone well. Then I basically wussed out big time, started texting far too often, texting asking why she's not replied etc. She is still replying but not as quickly and not all the time. Talking about wanting lots more dates etc. Not good! Tried setting up 3rd date and got "I'm busy this week but next week" and she's busy all weekend of course. Says not a brush off. I'm pretty confident I'm still in with a shout here but I do need to take back control of the situation and get her back into me! I've come to my senses at least and haven't text her since the day before yesterday when I text refusing to panda to a "mood" and left it that I'd talk soon. I reckon a freeze out will help big time. Basically needing advice on how long for and how to play it when I do get back in touch in order to re-build the full attraction. I do have other things going on and she's not the end of the world but I wouldn't actually mind having a relationship with this girl (which is a rarity) which explains the wuss out and the fact I'm bothering to keep trying. So advice on recovering with this girl rather than just move onto the next one please?

    For info I've not closed the deal yet, just kissing on both dates, but definite attraction on the dates.

    Cheers in advance!

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    Default Re: Recovery needed after total wuss out!

    Ok bud,

    Let me get this straight...
    You met a girl online.
    You went out with said girl twice.
    You kissed said girl twice.
    Than you had a wuss out. <~~~wtf lol
    Didn't text her.
    Dint call her.
    She stopped texting frequently.
    You start texting her more, asking "why you no text back?"
    Than she blows you off for next week...

    She must be uber confused bro.

    Don't move on though. Dint be a quiter! Retrace your steps, be patient and calmly continue the seduction.

    Ps. Don't ever text them asking why they haven't got back to you. That's straight AFC . CHUMP WORK. Be patient its more attractive.

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    Default Re: Recovery needed after total wuss out!

    Cheers bud. Yeah, even as I broke the rules I knew I shouldn't be doing it!! Is your advice then to continue to freeze out or to get back in touch? Yesterday was only day I didn't text, trying not to text every day, which I had been doing....I know that I've let self doubt in by actually giving a damn which isn't normally my style at all!!!

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    Default Re: Recovery needed after total wuss out!

    Get back in touch bro.

    Don't freeze her out.

    Shes probably going insane tryna figure out your behavior. Lol.


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