Hi, hoping I'm posting in right place here, new to this forum! Basically I'm needing some recovery advice. I've been playing the online dating sites, few dates etc. Been on a couple of dates with a girl, gone well. Then I basically wussed out big time, started texting far too often, texting asking why she's not replied etc. She is still replying but not as quickly and not all the time. Talking about wanting lots more dates etc. Not good! Tried setting up 3rd date and got "I'm busy this week but next week" and she's busy all weekend of course. Says not a brush off. I'm pretty confident I'm still in with a shout here but I do need to take back control of the situation and get her back into me! I've come to my senses at least and haven't text her since the day before yesterday when I text refusing to panda to a "mood" and left it that I'd talk soon. I reckon a freeze out will help big time. Basically needing advice on how long for and how to play it when I do get back in touch in order to re-build the full attraction. I do have other things going on and she's not the end of the world but I wouldn't actually mind having a relationship with this girl (which is a rarity) which explains the wuss out and the fact I'm bothering to keep trying. So advice on recovering with this girl rather than just move onto the next one please?
For info I've not closed the deal yet, just kissing on both dates, but definite attraction on the dates.
Cheers in advance!