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    Default Really need expert help on these questions

    Hey boys, whats up! So i have these 3 questions that i need to get more clearly!,


    1. When do i really compliment a girl? And if she "rejects" by just saying thanks, what do i do?

    2. How do i take a "rejection" like talking to girls and I dont get any hint of interests in me, like boring answers, sort of, " so hows your school? I bet u have much homework" hb, yeah it is much homework.
    (i know it was a simple and general question but just an example"

    And 3rd. I'm really into motocross and I'm already riding and im about to begin to race! I heard chicks also like motocross guys because its a "cool" sport if u know what i mean. But i rly need to show that I'm a mx rider more. (clothing etc) if someone here is good at expressions and street wear dressing u can gladly answer that with some tips! Thanks guys see u around!

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    Default Re: Really need expert help on these questions

    Hey bro.

    When to compliment depends on the style of your game. Some like to go for indirect game, such as myself and drop in a compliment after ignoring and disqualifying. I tend to use what I call "half compliments" e.g. "haha that was almost funny" if she says something humorous or saying "I wasn't sure at first, but I've decided your hair actually looks good that way". The use of words like "almost" and "actually" imply that she is getting a good response but isn't quite earning your attention yet, so she'll work harder. It's like a neg but without the side that can be seen as insulting. These sort of compliments should be conveyed in a playful tone. A reaction you might get to the first example is she might say "almost funny", to which I respond "yeah, almost, keep tryin kid" *smile*. At the very least this gets a laugh. If in a group be sure to use the same half compliment in full with obstacles. Eg if her friend says something funny (or whatever you've said) say "hahahahahahaha damn, girl, you're funny". Contrast .

    Others like to go more direct (a coulle of the experts on this on these forums for direct game are Cody and Virgil. I've found them very helpful) and open with a compliment. The key to this is confidence, delivery (it has to be said like you mentioned the weather, like you just noticed and it's not that important, but it has to have some fervency to it) it's a tricky balance, but practise helps. Another tip, don't compliment her looks or anything about her body. I tend today things like "I like your sense of style" or "I really like your energy". This way she gets a compliment, which uplifts her and you come across as original and refreshing, not a creepy pervert. I'm no expert on direct game, but that's worked for me before.

    If she just says "thanks", I say "either you've only said "thanks" because you truly don't believe that about yourself or you do but don't want to accept it because you'll look big headed -pause- so which is it?" most of them say "I just don't believe it" to which I'll respond "then why just say thanks and not argue with me? *smile*. Now we are teasing her. Give that self satisfied smile as of to say "haha, I just made you walk right into that one". If she doesn't respond to that, start a new thread.

    There are a few reasons she will answer that way. Either, you've conveyed too much interest and she thinks you want something so the b1tch shield comes into play (unless you've gone direct and established your motive), she really isn't interested, in which case you just have to walk away, you can't win them all, unfortunately. The other reason, the most common, is that you're asking bring questions and make it seem like an interrogation. Your example is a very closed question and leaves her with the option to say "yeah". Try using statements instead of questions. If you have found out she goes to school to, you could trying saying "I hate the amount of homework they give us, it's ridiculous" she will likely respond with "I know, the other day...." and tell a story about it, if she doesn't tell a story of your own about it, but don't whine about it, girls hate that, show you're managing to handle it. There's a post on the forums about conversation, I'll find it and edit with the link.

    Can't help with the fashion advice tbh, not my thing sorry lol.

    Hope this helped, good luck .

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    Default Re: Really need expert help on these questions

    When do i really compliment a girl? And if she "rejects" by just saying thanks, what do i do?

    You compliment a girl as an opener at the beginning of your interaction during Daygame.

    That's not a rejection; not in the least. You continue as normal, developing interest/attraction then rapport.

    How do i take a "rejection" like talking to girls and I dont get any hint of interests in me, like boring answers, sort of, " so hows your school? I bet u have much homework" hb, yeah it is much homework.
    (i know it was a simple and general question but just an example"


    Once again, not a rejection. You are looking for IOI's and if you continue to look for IOI's and see the absence of them as a lack of interest you will only be getting half the girls of your potential. To shorten a longer explanation, it's not a no until she says no. If she's going with it, she's into it. That's the state of mind you should implement.

    And 3rd. I'm really into motocross and I'm already riding and im about to begin to race! I heard chicks also like motocross guys because its a "cool" sport if u know what i mean. But i rly need to show that I'm a mx rider more. (clothing etc) if someone here is good at expressions and street wear dressing u can gladly answer that with some tips!

    At least in the US, Fox rules motocross apparel. You could become a billboard for them, but keep in mind type specific peacocking has its pros and cons. You will get more interest in the girls who are attracted to your genre, but will also put off those who aren't. It's a personal preference.

    Like Gemini said, compliments shouldn't be on her genetics; she did nothing to be born good looking, so don't compliment her on being hot. Compliment her on her choices: how she wears her hair, textiles, jewelry, shoes, etc.
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