Hello everyone, i was wondering if you guys could help me figure out what me and some friends did wrong
the other night, i have a good guess but im not sure.
We were at this bar and we sitted next to this 2 girls, an 8.5 and a 6.5 or so. The 8.5 had her back against us
so i decided to use the opener with the other girl that was in a good position (to my rigth, sitting in the
same direction i was sitting), i used a couple openers, the first one didnt have too much impact, but the
second one did the trick. Im a real newbie at this so from what i read and researched i tried the most
original opener using a situational one, in this case i told her to steal a slice of pizza for me from another
table that was nearby. She laughed and told me "tell you what me and my friend are going outside for a bit
to grab a smoke, while we are gone sit where i am and you can steal it yourself", i insisted abit telling her that
they will never notice, she laughed again and told us to watch their stuff while they were out. (This was a compliance on her part, but to refuse to watch over stuff is just plain mean at least thats what i think)
Once they left i sitted on the chair the 8.5 was sitting, and turned it so it was facing both tables, when
they came back they sitted the 2 of them next 2 each other, i used this as an excuse and mopved the chair
so i was facing them, and procceded to join the tables, so we had a good circle where everyone was
facing each other.
We talked for a while, we were all having a good time. After some time they got up to smoke again, thats why
after a few minutes passed i asked a friend to sit where i was sitting, and went to the bathroom, i tried to
time it rite so when i came back it looked like my friend stole my spot while i was gone ,so the only place i could sit was next to one of the girls (the 6.5), there i started
using kino slowly step by step, i got as close as to talking in her ear with my face touching hers for some
seconds, however i think i used compliance abit too much, she gave me a nickname wich was kinda girly, i
laughed about it and told her "no way your calling me like that, i want a nickname thast more manly" another
example would be that she asked me if she could have a drink of my beer and i told her always smiling
"no way go get your own beer!" she then hitted me playfully in my arm then i told her "im just kidding you can
have abit", i tought i was doing well enough, but with no reason the girl switched her body position and faced one of my friends and started talking to him, like giving me the cold shoulder or something.
I didnt overreact, i figured it was a test to see if i tried to get her attention again, wich i didnt, i jsut started talking to her friend that was kinda quiet, she appreciated the interest and faced me with her body and got closer
when she was talking, but it was kinda weird cause her friend was between us, so my kino was all messed up
could only do light kino but nothing more than that, i also used anchor when she laughed and what not. I told
her to come closer so we could talk better since her friend was in between. She said ok but instead of
coming closer they just went to smoke again.
When they come back, the 8.5 didnt sit down she just stood
there next to the table, the 6.5 did sit down next to me. Thats when i got confused i dont know why i shoulda just made a move on the 6.5 but i got nervous because i didnt knew if they were about to leave or if i did something wrong with the 8.5, this killed my mood and made me lose my cool, i pretty much choked, the 6.5 said like 2 or 3 times that she was sleepy, wasnt sure if it was like a signal saying that i should do something fast or that she was bored, i tried talking to her abit but it was in vain i lost the edge and was just doing light rapport to kill time.
I know its a pain in the arse to read WOT but i tried to be specific. Would appreciate any critics on what
i should have done or things i could have done better. For the record all this thing from start to end lasted
around 2 hours.
For anyone that took the bother to reading all this thanks alot!