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    Default Re: Im not an interesting person.

    Quote Originally Posted by SonnyCurtis View Post
    I'm exactly the same way man my mom overprotected me. In jr. high I sat at home playing World of Warcraft all day, my mom delivered my meals to the computer. I understand. I'd say there's two things you need to do - one, start seeing the beauty in everyday life. You go to college right? See what's going on around your campus. After you get out of class don't head home immediately. There's always something going on. A few examples from this week - a bunch of people playing the ukulele and singing, some dudes selling some Bob Marley gear, some dudes selling a socialist newspaper. Not that exciting right? But it's a good opportunity to socialize and you will meet people. You DON'T have to be the source of the "party". There's LOTS of stuff going on out there, all the time, everywhere.



    A world class violinist gets completely ignored by all the people during their morning rush. Incredible. Be the guy that stops and listens. By being fully engaged in the beauty of the MOMENT, the PRESENT moment, you will become an interesting person. Cus the world is interesting. Let yourself be a part of it.

    Secondly, find your passion. You don't need to have a gazillion hobbies. Find the one thing you REALLY love. Last Spring I broke my arm, had to have surgery, I was more or less drugged up and in my bed for 6 weeks. You know what I missed the most during that 6 weeks? Playing the guitar. I missed it so much. And that's when I realized what I wanna do with the rest of my life. Make music. Find your passion man. Truth is, there's probably not a whole lot of searching to do. Just some soul searching. The calling is there you just gotta let yourself hear it. Good luck bro!

    Hey bro, you really open my eyes thanks man, you're very similar to me, like 3 or 4 month's ago I injured my right anckle (playing basketball), I was in bed for 4 weeks and all I missed in those weeks was playing basketball, so thanks really for that and the tips, and thanks all for the help


    Now I need some drills of how to kill AA and shyness, the only one im doing is ask her for the time and I just only approach one HB, im a little scared of approaching sets, so if you guys know some drills so I can practice it would be great.
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    Default Re: Im not an interesting person.

    you need to do what i did this evening, go to your local shopping center(at least 10 stores) start on one end and work your way to the other. the catch is you stop at every store and approach one employee to ask them about something they are selling. don't leave a store until you have made an approach. the employee's will always be happy to assist you,because its their job to do so. you don't have to buy anything just act interested. this will help you get used to just walking up to complete strangers and asking them questions. you'll find that the worst thing that will happen is that they may frown when you don't buy what they just tried to sell you, or maybe they might tell you thanks, come again sometime. thats so much to be afraid of right? lol ;P good luck!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    you need to do what i did this evening, go to your local shopping center(at least 10 stores) start on one end and work your way to the other. the catch is you stop at every store and approach one employee to ask them about something they are selling. don't leave a store until you have made an approach. the employee's will always be happy to assist you,because its their job to do so. you don't have to buy anything just act interested. this will help you get used to just walking up to complete strangers and asking them questions. you'll find that the worst thing that will happen is that they may frown when you don't buy what they just tried to sell you, or maybe they might tell you thanks, come again sometime. thats so much to be afraid of right? lol ;P good luck!!


    Ok thanks I'll do it and let you know in the week how it went

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    Quote Originally Posted by JuniBoy View Post
    Ok thanks I'll do it and let you know in the week how it went
    it went fine for me, and it should work well for you just remember that the convo's can't be too long otherwise you will be destracting her from her job. my favorite of the openers i used was my shoe store opener. (ask the shoe store lady what the most comfortable shoe in the store is, and then get her to give her sales pitch about it) unfortunately both times i used this i got the answer "this is the shoe my husband prefers" but it is still a great way to get used to talking to people and to practice your skills in a "no consequence arena" you realy will never get told to get lost or anything to that effect, let me know how it works for you


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