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    alexgrech is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default a different problem than most in here (it's oneitis)

    hi, so iIve been reading and learning about the game for quite a while now. I've been reading lots of threads and articles on here as well.
    So what i mean is that i know a lot of Theory.

    The thing which i think causes the problem is that I have 'oneitis', [i only talked to her once on fb (but made new fb account and didn't add her again), and maybe once real life], and IMO she is an HB10.

    So, to the real problem, i go out with friends to clubs, and i approach nobody (no its not AA), the problem is that each girl i see, i don't like .. i see them like 6s/7s, maybe because i have the 'perfect' girl stamped in
    my mind all time which is a 10..

    how should i work around this?..

    you see i want to get the oneitis (and if i do, i dont need any more girls), but i need more practice first (before i approach her, so as not to ruin it), but i can't really practice with other girls since i don't like them..

    i only approached like 20 girls in last 3 months (and the 20 girls where all teenage tourists, and still a maximum of 8/10 except 1 being a 9), and now that summer is over, no more teen tourists for about 9months :s

    any thoughts/help please?

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    alexgrech is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: a different problem than most in here

    bump.. nobody cmon? (30 characters )

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    Default Re: a different problem than most in here

    well, what exactly are we supposed to tell you?.. if you don't like the girls, don't approach them, but try to clear your mind from the oneitis just approach her next time you see her, and if she rejects you, most probably girls which are currently 'ugly' will turn out to be 'normal' hehe.. or you could end up with your 'crush :P' ..
    The Worst thing I can be is the same as everybody else. I'd Hate that!

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    Default Re: a different problem than most in here (it's oneitis)

    Practice makes perfect. You are pretty much talking yourself out of meeting a cool person whether it be friends, acquaintances, or just that random person. Beggers cannot be choosers, its a written rule that holds true. You only are able to pick and choose when you have a laundry list of Hb8-10s already working with. Since you dont, you need to approach girls who are 6\7s that way you get more confident with your approach. We do not live in a perfect world where its perfect all the time so when you have a drought you have to adjust. So approach those girls who are 6\7s and expand your social circle. That chick who is a 6\7 might have a family member or friend who is a 10 and she can be your opening into getting the girl you want.
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    Default Re: a different problem than most in here (it's oneitis)

    @bobat.. easy to say to just approach the oneitis.. but shes the only girl i get AA with :/

    @topgun.. are you saying, to make friends with hb 6/7s, or approach in away i N or K close them?.. cause wow, i can't really think i will makeout with a 6 or a 7..

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    Default Re: a different problem than most in here (it's oneitis)

    don't get to far ahead of yourself, just approach the 6/7's and talk to them! you don't even have to n-close them if you feel that you aren't interested in them at all, btw i have a storie to tell you about my highschool years (i had a similar problem) there was this girl, an hb8 (i thought she was the hottest girl at my school) her name was tiara, i liked her so much,but i couldn't bring myself to approach her, at the same time i didn't even give a chance to the 6/7's at my school even when they were clearly into me (this was before i was a pua) so one day tiara caught me staring at her, when i was working up the courage to talk to her i was devistated,my one chance to be with her and i had blown it :'(
    this was what sent me into a downward spiral that led me to lose 50 pounds and start trying to "figure out" how to get wemon, back then i was looking for a "magic solution" i literaly had no success with wemon until my senior year when i discovered pua in the form of a book "how to succeed with wemon" by ron luis, unfortunatly it just outlined the proccess of seduction and didn't have much on my area of weakness,flirting. i didn't lose my v-card till the very end of my senior year because of this girl, the only reason i got over her was because i found out about how many guys she had slept with in the meantime while i was trying to figure out how to seduce her. i know i was pretty afc back then and one-itis is the number one thing that destroys most afc peoples game. over the summer i discovered neil strauss and mystery, that was what lead me to this forum i currently am gaming about five different girls (i n-closed them all in the last 4 weeks) right now and am starting to see some consistant results with them, if you only pursue one woman you will end up waisting alot of valuable time you could be using to game hundreds of wemon i hope you've learned something from my storie

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    Default Re: a different problem than most in here (it's oneitis)

    i will do what you guys are saying then!.. talk to all slim 7s, until i up my game .. hopefully i see some 8s and 9s and approach them aswell (but i rarely see any 8+ except CRUSH/Oneitis - hb10 :P)


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