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Thread: Russian girl... very unreceptive... what to do?

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    Default Russian girl... very unreceptive... what to do?

    So there is this really hot russian girl I approached in my college. I usually use a direct opener like, "Excuse me... I just saw you and I had to tell you... you look really pretty"... She was completely poker faced... and then I asked her if I could sit and chat with her for 5 mins. She agreed. But I had to carry on the conversation like 98% of the time. I was trying to avoid questions as much as possible, but every now and then I will slip into 'question mode' ..... but she still answered back ... she was very closed off.. in the beginning .. but she warmed up.. soon enough... not much .. just like 5 %... and then I ran out of things to say ... so I ejected... what should I do? Should I approach her again if I see her??

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    Default Re: Russian girl... very unreceptive... what to do?

    There could be cultural differences, but am completely unaware of the specifics so I can't help there. Or maybe her English isn't so good.

    Assuming she's Americanized and speaks perfect English I would tease her about it. Mention how she can't expect to make any friends if she just sits there trying to look cute.

    Also think of your attention and touch as a reward. If she doesn't engage in the conversation, even if you ask questions, then remove your attention and socialize with other people in front of her. Show her the funny social guy and ignore her which will create this tension. You already opened her so this will make it easier for her to re-engage you if she wants to. Then contribute to a conversation with her, but be a little short with her. Like you are turned off by her for not engaging in the first place. This is where having standards and showing her that you are willing to walk away is a powerful thing. According to Mystery Method, to convey that you are willing to walk away from bad behavior is an attraction switch.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Russian girl... very unreceptive... what to do?

    I will say this if you get her she will be an awesome person to date.

    Last girl I dated was from the Ukraine and the one before was from Russia. It might be an Eastern European thing but Batman might have a point about cultural differences.

    But based on my experience they do put up a huge defense some say raw personality. Anyway you have to be funny and fun. Put a smile on her face dont just talk to her. Thats what I did for the last two girls I dated. I said something in Russian to the last one, 'hello good morning', and then in english I asked if I could sit beside her. She looked at me and said no at first but said yes after. Yes my Russian was terrible but she liked that I put that extra effort in at least speaking to her in her native tongue. When I sat beside her I totally went into flirt mode and use my hands to do lame hand majic tricks. She laughed and that was my key. Thats when I knew I had broken in.

    You dont need to talk to a girl you have other forms of communications. Just get her to smile and open up. Once in you use direct game remember to close. Remember her english is not strong so you have to focus on going slow but quickly with her. Text game is very big with those who speak another language because they can translate what you are saying.


    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    There could be cultural differences, but am completely unaware of the specifics so I can't help there. Or maybe her English isn't so good.

    Assuming she's Americanized and speaks perfect English I would tease her about it. Mention how she can't expect to make any friends if she just sits there trying to look cute.

    Also think of your attention and touch as a reward. If she doesn't engage in the conversation, even if you ask questions, then remove your attention and socialize with other people in front of her. Show her the funny social guy and ignore her which will create this tension. You already opened her so this will make it easier for her to re-engage you if she wants to. Then contribute to a conversation with her, but be a little short with her. Like you are turned off by her for not engaging in the first place. This is where having standards and showing her that you are willing to walk away is a powerful thing. According to Mystery Method, to convey that you are willing to walk away from bad behavior is an attraction switch.
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    Default Re: Russian girl... very unreceptive... what to do?

    Hey... thanks guys ... great ... tips..! I put the ideas into use immediately! :-)


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