My gf lives an hour away for school and I just get the feeling that shes not as into as I am. She hasnt invited me out to visit her yet and its been about 3 weeks. I figured she would want me to come out welcome week or a tailgate but guess not.
When I do ask her to hang out she checks w/her sister first. For example she came back to town one week and we hung out, she txts me hey were coming back early! So we go out. While out w/her and her sister, her sister starts getting a bunch of txts from people back at school wondering where she is. My gf said yea we came back cause nothing was going on but now that were here everyone wants to hang out. Feels like she just came back because nothing was going on at school. How should I react to something like that?
My roommate says the next time she wants to hangout just simply tell her you cant because there are more fun things to do. I need some advice onhow to handle this. I want to tell her she sucks at being a gf but I dont know how to do that without coming across as AFC. I think I should start being more alpha again, because I did become a bit afc at the beginning when we became official.
Edit: for the record I havent hung out with her everytime she wanted. the first 2 weekends I did, the next one I told I cant because of forces outside my control and the 2nd I told her Im simply too busy.