Okay, so I made out with a girl and she responded to my texts through 1 word answers for a few days. I had feelings for her and told my best friends. They kept pressuring me into telling her that I had feelings, but I ignored them and just respected her little contact. Eventually I gave in and called her and we talked. She was not talking that much through text because she was stressed about a family member having cancer. I told her I had feelings for her for a few days after we made out but that I was dating someone else. Then she told me she never once had feelings for me.
Here is the kicker, she never once suspected that I had feelings for her since I used cocky comedy on her all the time. I could tell she felt really good about hearing that I had feelings for her, and after that...she calls and texts me much more. But, she brags about herself and how she cant have guy friends because they always want her ALL THE EFIN TIME. I just use cocky comedy and put her down, jokingly. Did I just get friend zoned? She has a bunch of orbiters, is she trying to make me one?
I feel she is playing with me. e.g Called me just to talk about how she took swimming lessons and a pervert guy keeps hitting on her. Now she is bringing her muscular guy friend to come and pretend to be her husband. I called her a P***y, lol. But then the next day I texted "Hey, I'm swimming laps at 2:30ish, you can come with if you promise not to be a perv." and she replied "No thanks, I'm busy but thanks for offering." I'm not going to respond, but wtf.