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    Default How do you know what stage your in?

    Hey guys,

    So I was wondering how do you know when you went from the attraction stage to the comfort stage when it comes to talking to girls? I read that it could take a while to get to the comfort stage but once you get there, it gets a lot easier. What are some thoughts on this?

    Also, thanks for the advice

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    Default Re: How do you know what stage your in?

    u know cuz u're the one who leads the interaction, u go into comfort when u want to. If she resists u just roll off in the end she'll crack and u'll get isolation and comfort.
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    Default Re: How do you know what stage your in?

    Generally (thinking of the stages as guidelines - rather than strict rules)

    During A1 you are getting through b1tch shields by generating interest with DHV

    In A2 you're raising your value by passing her sh1t tests and DHV/Neg

    At A3 she is rising to meet your value - Disqualify/qualify, setting hoops, compliance

    C1 is of course when you build comfort and rapport after you're both now qualified for each other - emotional disclosure, deeper rapport, etc

    C2 a new venue makes it feel more real, not just the illusion of drunkenness

    C3 - S3, these stages are pretty obvious.


    Xavier is right. YOU are the one who leads and decides when you are done DHV and ready to start getting her compliance (A2 / A3) and YOU decide when it's time to stop negging and start qualifying her, or when you've built enough interest with FTC and body rocking and can start straight DHV (A1 / A2).
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