I went to a "game club" at college with a friend due to boredom. Turned out to be pretty fun, I played Magic: the Gathering for the first time in years. 100+ nerds of all varieties showed up for it.
Got into a conversation with a stunning girl, seriously a 9.5, built like a racehorse, model hot. I made her laugh, held her interest with DHV stories, and tried to show my sensitive side to offset my jockish appearance as it clashed with others around me (and her). Our conversation revealed that she has a BF in Taiwan and that she is willing to cheat. She initiated talk about tantric orgasms, and I offered what little I knew about them in interesting form.
I did not even attempt to n-close on this girl. I'm going to see her next friday at the same event, and I didnt want to come off as the typical guy. She gets a ton of male attention at this thing, and I could see her energy wearing down. I had to use subtle intimidation tactics against the Star Wars geeks that tried to invade our convo, but there was a consistent barrage of them.
So I know I could've done better in set with her, but how should I approach next time I see her? I don't know anything about the girls that seek uber-geek company. I cannot help but assume it stems from a poor self image, though I hope not. It is obvious that she does not believe that she is beautiful, merely a big fish in a small pond. Also, I could sense a hesitancy behind her intrigue and bold sexual talk. She doesnt trust me yet, and I have to build appropriate comfort with her. Do you think I should emphasize my geeky side?
Thanks in advance for anything you guys can offer