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    Default Adapt game to nerdy girl

    I went to a "game club" at college with a friend due to boredom. Turned out to be pretty fun, I played Magic: the Gathering for the first time in years. 100+ nerds of all varieties showed up for it.

    Got into a conversation with a stunning girl, seriously a 9.5, built like a racehorse, model hot. I made her laugh, held her interest with DHV stories, and tried to show my sensitive side to offset my jockish appearance as it clashed with others around me (and her). Our conversation revealed that she has a BF in Taiwan and that she is willing to cheat. She initiated talk about tantric orgasms, and I offered what little I knew about them in interesting form.

    I did not even attempt to n-close on this girl. I'm going to see her next friday at the same event, and I didnt want to come off as the typical guy. She gets a ton of male attention at this thing, and I could see her energy wearing down. I had to use subtle intimidation tactics against the Star Wars geeks that tried to invade our convo, but there was a consistent barrage of them.

    So I know I could've done better in set with her, but how should I approach next time I see her? I don't know anything about the girls that seek uber-geek company. I cannot help but assume it stems from a poor self image, though I hope not. It is obvious that she does not believe that she is beautiful, merely a big fish in a small pond. Also, I could sense a hesitancy behind her intrigue and bold sexual talk. She doesnt trust me yet, and I have to build appropriate comfort with her. Do you think I should emphasize my geeky side?

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    Default Re: Adapt game to nerdy girl

    Quote Originally Posted by bighugewildRicky View Post
    she has a BF in Taiwan and that she is willing to cheat. She initiated talk about tantric orgasms, and I offered what little I knew about them in interesting form.


    how should I approach next time I see her?

    I don't know anything about the girls that seek uber-geek company. I cannot help but assume it stems from a poor self image, though I hope not. It is obvious that she does not believe that she is beautiful, merely a big fish in a small pond. Also, I could sense a hesitancy behind her intrigue and bold sexual talk. She doesnt trust me yet, and I have to build appropriate comfort with her. Do you think I should emphasize my geeky side?

    Thanks in advance for anything you guys can offer
    Don't TRY to emphasize your geeky side (if you do, and if she's really a HB9.5, then she'll see through it as the same as every other guy who jumps up with "I love yoda too!" and it's game over) let your geeky side come out naturally, but don't push it out.

    As for why she seeks geek company - she might just be a geek who happens to be hot. Maybe she just puts up with all the AFC's hitting on her because she REALLY likes WoW or KOTOR or LOTR or HP, etc.

    You should not approach her next time. Ignore her because beauty is common, and you aren't there for women, you're there for geeking. She'll come to you, if she doesn't, then approach a set in her vicinity, then roll off, approach another set near her, then roll off again - repeat until she approaches you, don't acknowledge her until it's time to engage.

    As for the BF in Taiwan (make sure he's not in some Asian gang because those guys don't fark around) maybe run BF destroyer, maybe don't, looks like you might just suffice to keep the talk sexual.
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    Default Re: Adapt game to nerdy girl

    Thats awesome advice, thank you. I didnt even think to let her approach me. I'll definitely need to create proximity due to the size of the club, and opening a nearby set is the best way.

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    Default Re: Adapt game to nerdy girl

    Was just walking to get some food and was mock "tackled" by the nerdy chick mentioned above. She told me to sit and eat with her and 2 geeks, so I did. I didnt need to approach at all, lol!

    I spent most of the conversation building rapport without seeking validation and comfort building. She steered the convo to the sexual side, and I didnt do that great, just flirted playfully around the subject. Escalated kino a bit.

    However, my nerdy roommate noticed me, approached, and stole away about 50% of her attention with ease, as they are both "ponies" fans? lol. I did not isolate, n-close, or even attempt venue change, just ended the interaction with "Well, I have to study, it was nice to run into you and to meet your friends."

    At this, she agreed that it was time to go, even though my roommate was not done eating. This would seem to indicate that he can't steal her away, but I'm definitely making a mistake that I can't see. I did sit beside her and faced her ok looking female friend, btw. It turned out that I had quite a bit in common with the friend, and may have made my target girl feel left out for a couple mins. Is this ok?

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    Default Re: Adapt game to nerdy girl

    Quote Originally Posted by bighugewildRicky View Post
    Was just walking to get some food and was mock "tackled" by the nerdy chick mentioned above. She told me to sit and eat with her and 2 geeks, so I did. I didnt need to approach at all, lol!
    Nice!

    I spent most of the conversation building rapport without seeking validation and comfort building. She steered the convo to the sexual side, and I didnt do that great, just flirted playfully around the subject. Escalated kino a bit.
    When she turns it sexual, try teasing her about her sexuality. Disqualify her in a way that she has to prove her sexuality to you - be like "tch! whatever, I don't think a roll in the hay of Smallville Kansas is too kinky " - whatever she responds - "whatever, you talk a big game but I know a sweet little innocent type when I see it" - disengage and talk to someone else in set

    However, my nerdy roommate noticed me, approached, and stole away about 50% of her attention with ease, as they are both "ponies" fans? lol. I did not isolate, n-close, or even attempt venue change, just ended the interaction with "Well, I have to study, it was nice to run into you and to meet your friends."
    If a "ponies" fan means a fan of the show "My Little Ponies", then I'd say her hot female cousin has a better chance of farking her than your roommate does lol

    At this, she agreed that it was time to go, even though my roommate was not done eating. This would seem to indicate that he can't steal her away, but I'm definitely making a mistake that I can't see. I did sit beside her and faced her ok looking female friend, btw. It turned out that I had quite a bit in common with the friend, and may have made my target girl feel left out for a couple mins. Is this ok?
    Making her feel left out is good - you need to do this some to get her to chase you, but then let her catch you before turning away again (Catstring Theory). But be careful not to seem to interested in any girl who is less than HB8 around her (if a HB9 thinks you're into an HB6 then she'll think you have low standards - HUGE DLV).
    I think the elusive, missing part of your game is either in value balance (if she's an HB9, you need to DHV and frame as Man10 - savy?) OR it could be she might be an awkward chick OR you might have her p*ssy on the pedistool... lol,
    Solution: Dominate (that'll solve it if she's awkward) - DHV and use a solid frame, stay in A2 as long as possible before you let her qualify herself (that'll show her you as an Man10) re-frame and tease/Neg her (that will take her p*ssy off the pedistool - if that's the case)
    But I think it could be your frame, that's usually one of the less tangible elements of game

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