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    Default Need help with my classmate girl

    I met this girl in my class, she is actually in 2 of my classes. We hung out once, for an hour. I socially kinoed her, intentionally touched her face one like a small poke (socially). I really like this girl, but what should I do next? She told me a lot about herself, her school, her parents, brothers, her hobbies. How long do I have to wait before I tell her that I reallly like her? How should I do it? Any ideas?

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    Default Re: Need help with my classmate girl

    Actions speak louder than words my friend thats always been the case. Dont tell her you like her that will just make the logical part of her take over and dissect you until she finds the smallest little flaw. So instead ask her out, great job on the convo and kino! She is already comfortable with you so get the date in and go for a kiss close!
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    Default Re: Need help with my classmate girl

    Quote Originally Posted by pua_wannabe View Post
    Actions speak louder than words my friend thats always been the case. Dont tell her you like her that will just make the logical part of her take over and dissect you until she finds the smallest little flaw. So instead ask her out, great job on the convo and kino! She is already comfortable with you so get the date in and go for a kiss close!
    I know her for 3 weeks now. I kinda see her her everyday. We dont talk much during lecture. But, I asked her twice before to meet up with me, and she told me that she is busy with her school work, which I think is true, cuz she is going to a grad school. What other approach should I take so that she will say yes to go out with me?

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    Look this just changed things a bit more but at the same time you in her life is a much needed distraction. Go for a short get together of sorts she has to have some downtime, in this date show her a great time and she will start making time for you! Use the excuse, " your brain is gonna break and transform you into a strange cat-lady" then offer your services as "the perfect distraction" or something along these lines just work some game guy!
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    Default Re: Need help with my classmate girl

    Quote Originally Posted by pua_wannabe View Post
    Look this just changed things a bit more but at the same time you in her life is a much needed distraction. Go for a short get together of sorts she has to have some downtime, in this date show her a great time and she will start making time for you! Use the excuse, " your brain is gonna break and transform you into a strange cat-lady" then offer your services as "the perfect distraction" or something along these lines just work some game guy!
    Thanks man. I see what you are saying, and actually just a few min ago, I found her on facebook, and saw that she has a bf. I thought this girl is a virgin, and now she has a bf? WTF? Anyway, she never brought up her bf in our conversation before. So, how do I game her now? What steps should I take?

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    Ignore the fact of the BF as if you didn't know. Tease her into hanging out with you - also use FTC and rapport, like: "I am studying so much for my other class, blah blah book review, blah blah exam, but I am setting aside (whenever... thursday) fifteen days from now as my go out and not care day..." the FTC being how busy you are, and the rapport being the deisre to forget your worries (to which she can relate).

    Don't mention the BF, if she mentions him, run BF destroyer and game on.
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    Default Re: Need help with my classmate girl

    Quote Originally Posted by Autismus View Post
    Ignore the fact of the BF as if you didn't know. Tease her into hanging out with you - also use FTC and rapport, like: "I am studying so much for my other class, blah blah book review, blah blah exam, but I am setting aside (whenever... thursday) fifteen days from now as my go out and not care day..." the FTC being how busy you are, and the rapport being the deisre to forget your worries (to which she can relate).

    Don't mention the BF, if she mentions him, run BF destroyer and game on.
    Thanks Austismus. I would do that but can't be sure when to do that exactly. You mentioned to tease her, but this girl doesn't have that kind of sense of humor. She isn't the "jumpy" type. Like I mentioned before I see her everyday in class. I know her for 3 weeks, and so far we had 7 encounters, all in class, with one hangout. I get to talk to her for 10 mins before and after class. I want to go direct on her, and tell her that I find her really pretty. But, she has to do other things to do after class. I will use your FTC, but when exactly do I go direct?

    Scenario 1: In class, as we are talking before the class starts, I can look at her and tell her that she looks really amazing today. Later after class, tell her to have coffee with me.

    Scenario 2: After class, as she is leaving, tell her that she is really amazing, and is looking pretty and then convince her to grab coffee with me.

    Scenario 3: After class as she is leaving, tell her she is looking pretty today, and then set up a date another day.

    On our hangout, I made her qualify a lot about her, her parents, and etc. I don't want to wait anymore. I kept on thinking about her these past 2 days. I don't want to tell her to do hw with me and then end up as her friend. What do you guys think, which scenario should I choose? Do you have any additional ideas?

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    Default Re: Need help with my classmate girl

    Definitely don't do it before class - that'll just make class awkward.

    Don't do it during class either - lecture is a constant distraction.

    Do it after class - golden.

    As for direct game, you might need to stay indirect since she has (some form of) BF she will need a healthy ammount of reasonal deniability to do anything sexual with you.

    Tease her like your cat lady joke.

    "Hey, I'm going to [bar, party, book discussion, poetry reading, astronomy event - whatever, a date.] you are the biggest nerd I've ever met, you never go out, you are coming out tonight [or other day it is planned for] you are going to have three hours of fun where you don't feel that overwhelming anxiousness in your chest for your impending hw, which you will look back upon in your apartment of 1000 cats saying - was it worth it? Come out with me. You're the only person in this class worth talking to."

    Though you know her better, so more direct might work
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    Default Re: Need help with my classmate girl

    The persistence will always trump the passive, that being said take everthing me and Autismus have said and devise a plan that can be put into action ASAP! Thanks for the input Autismus very much appreciated from both me and hikefitch!
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    Default Re: Need help with my classmate girl

    Quote Originally Posted by Autismus View Post
    Definitely don't do it before class - that'll just make class awkward.

    Don't do it during class either - lecture is a constant distraction.

    Do it after class - golden.

    As for direct game, you might need to stay indirect since she has (some form of) BF she will need a healthy ammount of reasonal deniability to do anything sexual with you.

    Tease her like your cat lady joke.

    "Hey, I'm going to [bar, party, book discussion, poetry reading, astronomy event - whatever, a date.] you are the biggest nerd I've ever met, you never go out, you are coming out tonight [or other day it is planned for] you are going to have three hours of fun where you don't feel that overwhelming anxiousness in your chest for your impending hw, which you will look back upon in your apartment of 1000 cats saying - was it worth it? Come out with me. You're the only person in this class worth talking to."

    Though you know her better, so more direct might work
    That sounds good. So, you are saying that I should try to tease her. But this girl doesnt have that kind of sense of humor. She is a semi-serious type. Honeslty, I got a little bored during our first hangout, cuz she won't stop talking. I don't know what to do, if I go direct on her, she will say "I got a bf," what the heck, I dont care, I will still take chances. If I go indirect, she will say no, she is busy can't come. I tried that before. As far as teasing her.... I don't know abt that. She grew up in a country side, and didnt have much exposure to city life, and so most of our city stuffs, really doesnt work on her.

    How about I go direct, compliment on her looks, and then tell her what I like about her personality, and then tell her to join me for a drink. How does that sound?


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