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Thread: After the first date, what do i do?

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    Default After the first date, what do i do?

    So I met this cute girl in class, got her number and took her out to eat dinner with me on Friday. I felt like we both had a really good time. After dinner, we talked and walked around campus for about an hour and then she said she had to go back and finish a paper, so I walked her back to her dorm. When we got there, I was thinking about kiss closing, but there were a lot of people around and I couldn't pull it off, so I gave her a hug and left. Was that a mistake? How do I make sure that I can clearly show her my intentions? My biggest fear is that I will be put into the friend zone like I have been in the past. Also, I read about the 48 hour rule for texting after the first date. If I will see her tomorrow during class, should I still text her today about how I had a great time, or hold off until tomorrow? And how long should I wait to set up a second date?

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    Default Re: After the first date, what do i do?

    When we got there, I was thinking about kiss closing, but there were a lot of people around and I couldn't pull it off, so I gave her a hug and left. Was that a mistake?

    It was only a mistake if you wanted to do it and didn't.

    How do I make sure that I can clearly show her my intentions?

    Many times the deciding factor between friends and more is kino. Just make sure to kino.

    If I will see her tomorrow during class, should I still text her today about how I had a great time, or hold off until tomorrow?

    Do whichever you prefer. It's your call.

    And how long should I wait to set up a second date?

    As long as you'd like. You're the boss so you're in charge. You call the shots. Wait a couple days or a couple weeks. It's up to you.
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    Default Re: After the first date, what do i do?

    Thanks for the reply. So basically its all about kino to show her that I want to be more than just friends. Any other advice you have for me?

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    Default Re: After the first date, what do i do?

    If you want to make her your girlfriend you should never talk directly about the type of friendship you want. avoid locking down anything and getting her to commit, wait for her to bring this topic up. and even when she bring this topic up you should act hard to get
    instead just focus on having fun together, don't forget to escalate physically.
    If it frightens you, Do It!

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    Default Re: After the first date, what do i do?

    Okay. Thanks for the advice. So the focus is kino and trying to escalate physically.


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