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    Default Just kiss-closed, need help!

    Hello, first time on the forum, big fan of the philosophy / action. I would really appreciate some advice here.

    Literally just got home from kiss-closing a social circle HB 8. 20 years old, 32-D, delicious. At a friend's house, had a few beers, started very early with heavy kino, and continued to escalate. As my circle hung out in the garage, I led her inside to "get a beer." We ended up HEAVY making out, rubbing underneath each others' clothes. I ended up breaking it off first, by making a joke about being younger than her (she's into guys older than her, I am 27, her perfect age happens to be 27). I got the phone number, but am unsure how/when/what to text her. I want to f*ck, not sure if LTR material yet. Any help would be appreciated!

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    Default Re: Just kiss-closed, need help!

    Invite her over your place for drinks, then you are good to go. Hopefully you live by yourself .

    Regarding texting, tell her it was nice meeting her and hopefully you guys can meet again. Then on Friday or Saturday invite her to your place for drinks and then do your stuff.
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    Default Re: Just kiss-closed, need help!

    Topgunningit's right ^ normally I'd say go for a evening date to build more comfort but she seems pretty DTF. Though have a back up plan ready - just because she's DTF in the passion of meeting you doesn't necessarily mean her ASD didn't change her mind in the intervening days.

    If she gives you the bedroom eyes upon arriving at your place, then it is ON! If you sense hesitation tho or discomfort while opening the first drink, then sit down by her and maybe go with:

    "so after we pregame a bit *point to your drinks* I figure we'll check out this club I haven't been to in a while"
    Her: "But I'm only 20, I can't drink!"
    You: *patronizingly* "Well that's why we pregame, so we're drunk when we get there" (neg)

    Stay kinda sober yourself during pre-game by faking it (water your drinks, fill your colored beer bottle with water, whatever - you'll be driving). Then go to the club, get her all hot and bothered on the dance floor, slip her a few drinks and take her home to seal the deal.
    (mind you this whole club detour is only necessary if she is all ASD uncomfortable upon arrival at your place - I had one like that once.)
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    Default Re: Just kiss-closed, need help!

    Thanks guys for the reply. I texted her this afternoon, and to no one's surprise, she never responded. Typical. I'll be out again tomorrow night going for cold approaches (my weakness).

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    Default Re: Just kiss-closed, need help!

    Just don't blow her up about it!!

    She'll come to you.. DO NOT go afc on this. You already have your foot in the door.

    Be patient, close it out strong!!

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    Default Re: Just kiss-closed, need help!

    Oh believe me, I have my self respect. I do not mess around with texting after not getting replies. I'm pretty sure this is ASD kicking in. Wondering if I should have either pushed harder for the SNL, or not made out as much.


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