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    Default hb 10 - crush help

    sup all, i got a problem with dealing with my crush..

    im gonna give you some information on the current situation

    firstly, i wanna say that i only talked to her ONCE on fb for maybe 15 mins (thought she was another girl, but replied back immediately after me opening.. even though she popular)..
    secondly, i made a new facebook account after a month of me talking to her, and didn't add her again since i only talked to her once (to not look desperate or needy or whatever) [been like 6-7months now]
    thirdly, i see her in clubs once every 2 weeks or so, but i never approach..
    fourth, i saw some IOI's like once grabbing my forearm for 1 second in a club (but, it was crowded, so it may have been a coincidence) ---- another IOI was eye contact, but it may have been she was staring and not an actual IOI.. so IDK
    fifth, she has a friend which is part of their group, which was in my highschool class [donno if its helpful or not]


    now for the problem.. so yeah like 8months passed since i saw her the first time (love at first sight, no kidding :/ )
    and i just wanna approach and actually try.. cause i can't wait longer to know if its a YES or NO..[and also because i have her on my mind, i see other girls which my friends say are an 8/9 as a 7 compared to her - she brainwashed me?]
    BUT, i dont know what im gonna say in the approach.. i can tell her like 'hey, im XXX...' because i think she still remembers it.. so any ideas what should i say next time i see her in a club? [without looking desperate, i know if i make her laugh, i have a greater chance of picking her up, at least i think because i always see her luaghing out loud]

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    Default Re: hb 10 - crush help

    Well you definitely have one-itis. So just be careful since this could convey through your behavior towards her and she can't know what kind of pedestal you put her on. And I mean she can NEVER know, even if you think it's a good idea during your opener or after a few hours talking.

    I also don't think you should remind her. Treat her like a new girl that you approach. Don't bring it up. If she does then great, but I prefer to pretend I don't remember them when they bring it up. It shows that I got better things to do then remember insignificant interactions or people in my life. Remember, she didn't DO anything to earn your interest other than look good and a nice little FB conversation. So remember to qualify her after you build attraction.

    If you want to come under the radar then come in next to her when she's at the bar. Then you say to her, while pointing out another woman "Man you see that chick over there? She's so fucking hot. I would totally take her home with me if I could." (You say "if I could" because it shows it's out of your control and you don't sound like a player.) Then gauge her response and open her from there.

    If she's with the group then I'd just walk by and say hi to everyone and keep walking. Just to warm them up for later when you approach again.

    There's also nothing wrong with being direct. It's just a little riskier. Letting her know that she is attractive and you are curious, but not won over yet. She has to win you over. Don't let on that she already has when she essentially hasn't done anything to earn it. Hope this helps and good luck.
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    Default Re: hb 10 - crush help

    That was an awesome reply mate .. really helped me a lot. Thanks!
    just 2 small questions though..

    1)as for direct approach, is this good "Hey you're really cute, I just wanted to come over and meet you".? or is it needy?

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    Don't bring it up. If she does then great,
    if she does bring it up, should i act like i still can't remember? or what pls?

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    Default Re: hb 10 - crush help

    Yes that's a fine direct opener, but you may need a bit more weight to it. Tell her that you wanted to find out if she was adventurous and spontaneous or just another pretty face. Think past the opener.

    If she brings it up then get her to explain exactly where she knows you from. If she goes into detail about your FB conversation then tease her for remembering something so small and accuse her of being in love with you.
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    Default Re: hb 10 - crush help

    hey man.. thanks a LOT again was really really helpful!

    im gonna try and approach other girls every time im going out , so as i at least get in the 'zone' + get good social proof before approaching her to not look needy )

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    Default Re: hb 10 - crush help

    update :.. i've seen this girl twice yesterday.. once she was going to the toilet so i didn't approach but i saw her and she saw me..

    i saw her again leaving the club..

    damn some1 kill me :/ stupid AA cause shes hb 10 :/ with others not much AA

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    Default Re: hb 10 - crush help

    If you are having trouble coming up with a "clever" way to approach her then just go direct, with no expectations. Then if she isn't that responsive than think to yourself that it's ashame that she is missing out on you. If she IS responsive then you are IN.
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