Re: hb 10 - crush help
Well you definitely have one-itis. So just be careful since this could convey through your behavior towards her and she can't know what kind of pedestal you put her on. And I mean she can NEVER know, even if you think it's a good idea during your opener or after a few hours talking.
I also don't think you should remind her. Treat her like a new girl that you approach. Don't bring it up. If she does then great, but I prefer to pretend I don't remember them when they bring it up. It shows that I got better things to do then remember insignificant interactions or people in my life. Remember, she didn't DO anything to earn your interest other than look good and a nice little FB conversation. So remember to qualify her after you build attraction.
If you want to come under the radar then come in next to her when she's at the bar. Then you say to her, while pointing out another woman "Man you see that chick over there? She's so fucking hot. I would totally take her home with me if I could." (You say "if I could" because it shows it's out of your control and you don't sound like a player.) Then gauge her response and open her from there.
If she's with the group then I'd just walk by and say hi to everyone and keep walking. Just to warm them up for later when you approach again.
There's also nothing wrong with being direct. It's just a little riskier. Letting her know that she is attractive and you are curious, but not won over yet. She has to win you over. Don't let on that she already has when she essentially hasn't done anything to earn it. Hope this helps and good luck.
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