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    Default Juggling Girls - Transitioning from one to the other


    So I've been hooking with this girl (code 3 Clinger) probably NJI. The first time we farked I made her really comfortable - she had a bad breakup and had had a FWB (23 yo) for gravitating toward more mature men (I'm 18 yo) - so I had to make her really comfortable then we farked.

    I think all that comfort might hurt me, because she's been holding my hand in public and stuff. We even made plans to be homecomming (college) dates at the dance.

    Now I'm trying to cool things off with this ^ NJI while I'm also heating things up with another girl (a TDR who has a black horse - badboys -in the cube).

    Here is my question:
    Both have started holding my hand / kissing in public - how do I make sure they don't find out about each other??
    Mostly I want to make sure the NJI isn't devastated after I got through so much of her defenses.

    The NJI said earlier "I don't want to hold you down" - should I just be honest and tell her there's someone else??
    This will destory her.
    Should I try to get someone else to pull a steal and get me off the hook?? lol

    Any help would be great!

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    Default Re: Juggling Girls - Transitioning from one to the other

    I wouldn't try to hide them from each other. However, I wouldnt broadcast it either. You are a man with desires and are exploring your options. You don't have to apologize for that. If she asks if you are seeing other women, kindly tell her that you are uncomfortable with discussing these things. If she presses then hold your ground while trying to change the subject. If she gets upset, well that's unavoidable. People get upset. It s a basic emotion of nature. What matters is how you handle her being upset. Don't fuel it and make it worse. Downplay it by seeming like she is being dramatic and continue to try and change the subject. If she is that stubborn after that, then tell her you will talk to her later. There's a good chance that she will worry that she pushed you away with her pressing and will try to get on good terms with you again.

    I DO NOT recommend lieing about other women, or really anything for that matter. But that doesn't mean you have to tell them everything. Hope this helps and good luck.
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