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    Default Why am I such a BAFC?

    Ever since I was 13 I've wanted a girlfriend, or something more than a purely platonic relationship with women. I'm a varsity basketball player, a computer engineer, and a sufficient conversationalist. I usually try to implement kino, DHV, decent confidence, and other techniques learned from this forum when speaking with women. I'm really tall (7 feet) but girls have mentioned that i'm attractive. Regardless, I've never gone past the point of kissing, and any girl that I liked has rejected me. Feels bad man especially since an autistic person, and a person with aspergers I know have both lost their virginity while I havent. For some reason I seem to be adept at attracting girls who are about 1-2 on a scale of 1-10. I'd rather just be a virgin, then. At this point I barely even bother with women >HB5, since it feels so hopeless. I really don't understand where im going wrong, so if anyone can explain to me why i'm such a chump, that would be awesome.

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    Default Re: Why am I such a BAFC?

    Have you read you're title, You Are An Aspiring Pua.

    there was a rap song that is completely relavent to you're situation, my once upon a time situation, and everyone else learning situation:

    Flirt with the hood rats, then pop models!

    take out a a couple of ones, then go to 2's, then 3's, then 4's then 5's if you need too, just get the sexual experience, learn how to preform sexually on some gross that way when you get the women of you're dreams you can satisfy her imacculately,
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Why am I such a BAFC?

    Moving up the ladder as Tyrone1991 is saying isn't bad, I did it, it helps gaining confidence in your abilities.

    Look dude dating and sleeping with women is a numbers game anyway you look at it, push through and keep going!

    Learn about as many things as you can about the seducing a woman, being on this Forum will help you tons with that! But you cant give up otherwise you wont get anywhere! Everyone is here to learn, I can only make two requests and they are...Learn open-mindedly and Field test all of it.
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    Take her off that farking pedestal!

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    Default Re: Why am I such a BAFC?

    look i pop 8,9,10, and even double digits but every now and then when my confidence is down, i'll do a 5, and then get back into again.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Why am I such a BAFC?

    @pua_wannabe You're totally right its a numbers game, and my odds are favorable if I keep trying, so of course I will. However the average age to lose virginity is 16.4, and the average first age to get a girlfriend is about 13-14. The numbers suggests something is inherently wrong with me, my game, or in all likelihood both, because otherwise I would not be such an outlier. I wish I could find out what exactly is causing the problem. I consider myself a BAFC because the regular afcs have infinitely more success than I do, according to national statistics. BAFCs never even know what they're doing wrong. *And adept at attracting 1-2 girls was a little arrogant; I haven't really tried when getting IOIs, so I don't actually know if I could.
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    Default Re: Why am I such a BAFC?

    you could play this differently, use you'r virginity to you're advantage, say you'r waiting for the right girl, every girl likes a challange. they will try conquer you if you play it right i imagine. but you will have to keep them chasing for ages. food for thought
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Why am I such a BAFC?

    @Tyrone Ill try field testing this at some point. Girls at my highschool figured out I was a virgin somehow, and assumed I was weird and/or awkward. Or maybe it was the other way around....

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    Default Re: Why am I such a BAFC?

    try it while you're learning the game, then while you have them on the chase you can game them even harder. but make sure you continue as a pua practitioner. its the perfect buffer zone for you
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Why am I such a BAFC?

    PUA is for the small percentage of guys who never got girlfriends when we were younger or got laid the same time as everyone else, we defy the national average statistic. It wont be easy but nothing worth attaining never really is, so keep at it! And dont be ashamed of your virginity, when people ask brush it off and let them know you havent found some one worth your time.
    Take her off that farking pedestal!

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    Default Re: Why am I such a BAFC?

    How do I stop feeling ashamed about my virginity? Whenever people talk about sex in a group, I get this anxious/depressed pit feeling in my chest which probably hurts my social interaction. I haven't found a good way to deal with it. If I was choosing for religious reasons or something, I could justify it, but I've been trying for many years now, and therefore I'm embarrassed. I feel like half a man. Saying "I haven't found the right person" is just as much of a lie for me as "I'm not a virgin." I bet i'm showing subtle signs of being a desperate dan.


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