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Thread: To Dance Or Not To Dance

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    Hey,

    So I need some help with knowing whether or not I should go up and just dance with a girl or whether I should talk with her first. I have had times when girls come close by or give me a look, and I go up, dance, and make out. Whereas sometimes, it seem that the exact same signal is there, but they then don't want to dance. So my question (or rather two questions) is: When should I go and talk with a girl/group of girls over dancing with them? And when if the latter, how would one go about it on a noisy dancefloor? I have seen guys just go up, start chatting girls up on the dance floor, and I have no idea how to do it.

    Thanks a bunch

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    it all depends on your style, some people will say the dance floor is a trap, i personaly feel that it depends on what your goal is, if you just want to have lots of fun and you are very confident with lots of energy i say just go for it, at prom i was "the man" because i was one of the only guys who danced the whole time, though i was already aquainted with most of the girls i have a dancing gambit that i use that works all the time,(i'll put it in my next post) if you aren't comfortable looking foolish or just aren't a high energy guy then by all means stay away from the dance floor.

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    soo if you decide you want to dance, be that guy (you know the one in the middle of the dance floor energetically dancing and singing along with all the songs) people will see you out there foolishly dancing and they will all think one of two things 1,he's the most confident guy i've seen all night or 2, he's the most drunk guy i've seen all night, if you decide to be that guy, feel free to just walk up to a shy girl who's by herself and pull her out on the dance floor. most girls are willing to dance after just one or two servings of alchahol. also if a girl starts dirty dancing, you can use my fun technique, just switch it to where they are the one rubbing themselves against your but, then out of the blue tell them that they have a big weiner it always gets good laughs if you aren't a very high energy person this stuff will not work!! but if you are like me (i have adhd) and have lots of energy to dance all night go at it, but don't try to n-close on the dance floor (it doesn't work) you have to isolate her to someplace more conductive to convorsation for that

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    Default Re: To Dance Or Not To Dance

    That is great advice man! I really appreciate it. I just wonder how it would work if there is a group of girls. Can I still just pluck a girl out or do I need to engage the whole group?

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    with a group, if they are on the dance floor its ok to pluck one, if they are off the dance floor you do have to adress the group, aproach and open like you normally would, then instead of isolating the target, say something like "oh thats my favorite song to dance to,lets go dance"then take the whole group to the dancefloor, it works as long as you have a positive vibe with them before you do it. or if a slow song comes on you could turn to your target who you've been negging and say "would you care for a dance" she will most likely want to i don't know if where you are going will do slow dances or not, but i did this stuff at high school dances, one more thing, my signature k-close, the slow dance k-close, you have to be extremely confident to pull it off, first you have to attract her, then get her to slow dance with you (its realy intimate)slowly subtly bring her closer while you dance with her, if she backs up when your trying to bring her closer then its off,but if she excepts the extra intimacy then procceed to look her in the eyes for just a second too long, glance away but return to your eye contact,but this timejust look her in the eyes and slowly move in for the kiss, if she moves in with her lips its on kiss her passionately i have used this one several times at high school dances with great success, but now that i'm in college i don't get to use it very much

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    Default Re: To Dance Or Not To Dance

    Great stuff meteora.

    Im no dance expert but what u say is sooo true. The goal for me when dancing is have fun. If u stay out there, you'd be surprised how girls will follow u around the dance floor... kinda hanging around waiting for you to approach. I feel that approaching a girl Breath the dance floor has less risk, especially if she is dancing alone.

    Oh and if anyone needs dance tips, youtube 'merengue lesson.' This dancing is uptempo and intense. It involves hips movements and holding a partner/ doing turns with them etc.

    Merengue is like a catchall of dance techniques you can use for any music. The turns they teach are great for kino because it involves innocent hand, arm, hip holding. Pay attention to how they teach you where your hips are and how to move them. Once you know that, you move from awkard dancer to competant dancer (and womem love a guy who can dance... even if he can just hold a rythym). Get away from just grinding ALL the time guys! This isnt the roxbury lol!
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