Met HB9 at bar, made out and danced for a while that night. Got her number. Went on first date, got drinks. Made out a little after date...but I knew she had to get up early and was tired/it was weekday, so I didn't try to push it further. Figured it would be best to be the one to stop making out with her first, before she ended it (is this good?).
Despite that sounding like it went well...I'm pretty sure I made some mistakes while on the date/post date. It has definitely seemed as "I am chasing her" now, more than "she is chasing me". After Thursday first date, I text her saturday some joke shit I read on here...long story short, her response was HUH? to the punch line. Didn't text her for a few hours, then gave her a call. She was with friends, her friend answered phone saying like "sam's answering service..." (should I read into her friend answering the phone and not her?)
We talked for a few minutes, I asked her if she wanted to do something this week before I leave for vacation for 10 days. She said yes, and to text her. The tone of the whole convo seemed strange tho. Didn't get a good vibe. Maybe it's because she was with friends?
My question is this...since I really do feel it has spun into "me chasing her more". My thought process now, instead of trying to get with her during the week for something before I leave. Since she is expecting my text and me asking her to see me before I leave. I thought it would be better to text her a couple days later, and just say that I don't think I'll have time to get together before I leave....something along those lines.
Is it too risky that we've only gone on one date, and now I won't see her for a while?
Anything else I can add?
Thank you everyone!