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    Default Re: Walking around like youre super confident wont get girls to approach yo

    then write a thread on how to do it.

    you cant hold secrets here my firend, i'll share mine

    http://www.puaforums.com/pua-openers...html#post59216
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Walking around like youre super confident wont get girls to approach yo

    I'm too new to give advice. I don't think it's really more complicated then upping her value 2 eg) 6-8

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    Default Re: Walking around like youre super confident wont get girls to approach yo

    I always look at it this way... having Alpha Body Language is like a beacon to woman. It's like a giant ship in a sea of AFC and Wussies... they WILL notice you.

    Our job is to not seem needy and approach every woman. Show you are qualifiying all the women and only choosing to talk to those you deem worthy. Our job is to pick up on their IOI's, NO MATTER HOW SUBTLE.

    And finally... you MUST approach. Doesn't have to be right away, but don't put it off unless you have a good reason ... and it has to be an OUTER reason not an INNER one (ex. your hanging with friends, happen to be on the phone or ordering food etc...). If its an inner reason (like simple tiredness or whatever), the women won't know why your NOT approaching an judge you to be an AFC. Especially the HB 9 and 10's. Sux but what are ya gonna do???

    That's how I always viewed it.
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    Default Re: Walking around like youre super confident wont get girls to approach yo

    Quote Originally Posted by Tyrone1991 View Post
    when do girls ever approach, never unless they are a slut or need/want something. Or a PUA lol
    Plenty of girls do...especially in the HB6-8 category. It's not common but it happens. Same with online dating. Plenty of women should also be writing to you. The emphasis is not on 'trying' but actually you really are confident because of how successful or how much effort you put into your life. You need to be so farking confident and good your mission is to actually be humble and modest rather than trying too hard. You need to have the mindset 'Im over confident and need to show some charming restraint' rather than 'gee Im not really sure if the girls will like this so I better try harder and go out of my way'. You dont need every girl on the planet to notice you...you want the girl with hot ass over there to notice

    Calibrate.

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    Default Re: Walking around like youre super confident wont get girls to approach yo

    I get what you're saying about guys walking around over-confidently coming across as insecure. If she is shy she may feel intimidated. If she is confident she will see you as try hard. Or maybe she does find you confident and she becomes really attracted. In all cases though, the chances of her approaching is practically nil. Women are the natural choosers and we can only reverse the roles if we engage them first. I wouldn't be surprised if most women didn't even realize that approaching a man would even be considered an option for them. Good post Peel.
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    Default Re: Walking around like youre super confident wont get girls to approach yo

    Quote Originally Posted by whitedragon View Post
    Plenty of girls do...especially in the HB6-8 category. It's not common but it happens. Same with online dating. Plenty of women should also be writing to you. The emphasis is not on 'trying' but actually you really are confident because of how successful or how much effort you put into your life. You need to be so farking confident and good your mission is to actually be humble and modest rather than trying too hard. You need to have the mindset 'Im over confident and need to show some charming restraint' rather than 'gee Im not really sure if the girls will like this so I better try harder and go out of my way'. You dont need every girl on the planet to notice you...you want the girl with hot ass over there to notice

    Calibrate.
    If youre trying to say to not approach and just walk around for hours everyday acting like youre super confident and eyeing girls you like but never approaching ... been there done that. Zero approaches from girls. This is the opposite of the point Im trying to make.

    I have been very insecure on the inside and have tried pretending to be confident on the outside on the hopes of getting a girl to approach me. Hasnt worked for years. I still do it from time to time since Im a beta at times. Still nothing.

    Some of you seem to be trying to tell you guys to do this and then trying to back it up with a bunch of garbage explanations that dont make sense.

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    Default Re: Walking around like youre super confident wont get girls to approach yo

    *Not sure how my message got in this topic :S*

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    Default Re: Walking around like youre super confident wont get girls to approach yo

    Quote Originally Posted by peel View Post
    If youre trying to say to not approach and just walk around for hours everyday acting like youre super confident and eyeing girls you like but never approaching ... been there done that. Zero approaches from girls. This is the opposite of the point Im trying to make.

    I have been very insecure on the inside and have tried pretending to be confident on the outside on the hopes of getting a girl to approach me. Hasnt worked for years. I still do it from time to time since Im a beta at times. Still nothing.

    Some of you seem to be trying to tell you guys to do this and then trying to back it up with a bunch of garbage explanations that dont make sense.
    Peel, when did I say to not approach and just walk around confidently for hours everyday? You are now being insecure with people that are trying to help you on this forum. What I said is that normal women can and do approach men but it's rare. Quite obviously you cannot rely on that and you need to approach women. Also quite obviously you can't pretend to be confident and hope a girl approaches you.

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    Default Re: Walking around like youre super confident wont get girls to approach yo

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    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Walking around like youre super confident wont get girls to approach yo

    I like the spicy debates. Alot of fire lol.
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