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Thread: Walking around like youre super confident wont get girls to approach you?

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    Default Walking around like youre super confident wont get girls to approach you?

    I used to do this a lot and I see a lot of people doing a bit of this at school. Basically they'll walk around like they think they're the shit. Sometimes they'll dress up super nice and then they'll walk wherever they're going and make sure people see they are walking super cocky and trying to exude tons of confidence. Other times, they'll just act really confident and try to act super cool close or near a girl of interest. But the thing is they wont approach a girl. They are hoping a girl will see this huge confidence and somehow approach them and/or start hitting on them and let it progress from there.

    Maybe I am seeing things and the only reason I keep seeing this is because I used to do it a lot myself and Im somehow projecting this perception onto others who I see around a hot girl. But maybe Im partially right.

    At least for me, I never got an approach this way. I just wasted hours walking around like a douche. My guess is that Maybe they will get lucky and get on approach from a semi-slutty girl. I'm not sure. Maybe the extremely good looking guys do this and it works for them? Im not sure.

    Thoughts?

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    Default Re: Walking around like youre super confident wont get girls to approach yo

    i have noticed this alot too, when i walk around very confidently with my head held high girls seem to notice, they look at me like they want me to approach and talk to them, i especialy noticed it today when it was raining, no one held their head up but me and people noticed, i don't know if they saw me as confident or arrogant or just good looking, but they seemed to notice

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    Default Re: Walking around like youre super confident wont get girls to approach yo

    it works, but 50-50 first walk around make sure everyone notices you, be the last guy to be introduced. ! keep looking good

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    Default Re: Walking around like youre super confident wont get girls to approach yo

    Yes, I agree with above posters. I used to do the same thing before I learned to bridge the gap. Hot girls expect to be approached by a super-confident guy, so you have to fulfill that expectation or they will think something is wrong (either with you or them).

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    Default Re: Walking around like youre super confident wont get girls to approach yo

    Quote Originally Posted by bighugewildRicky View Post
    Yes, I agree with above posters. I used to do the same thing before I learned to bridge the gap. Hot girls expect to be approached by a super-confident guy, so you have to fulfill that expectation or they will think something is wrong (either with you or them).
    Im guilty of this as well. Id say most of the time when im out in public i just look confident naturally now. Walking, standing, whatever.

    What ive also noticed is that this can get you alot of ioi's (if your keen to noticing them), but almost never will the girl approach or open you. This sucks and im guilty of passing up opportunities like these due to aa. Still working on that!

    The only exception to this is at a bar or club during night game. If your a good looking guy looking confident, sometimes girls will come up to you. Happens to me here and there, but not something to count on!

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    Default Re: Walking around like youre super confident wont get girls to approach yo

    You're on the money with that Peel. I went out with a wing-fail the other night who does exacly this - he blew every set. Otw home he's like "my night game isnt very good unless Im at a strip club... strippers love me..." ^The slutty girls will approach, but no one else.

    I usually do lile Meteora describes, walk in like a big d1ck so she (collective) wants me to approach, then give her what she wants IF you know what I mean ...more or less lol
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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    Default Re: Walking around like youre super confident wont get girls to approach yo

    So just to make sure everyone understands since I dont think you guys understand 100%: Walking around acting super confident and showing off WITHOUT approaching a girl is beta and cowardly. You will waste hours waiting for an approach that will never happen

    Let me know what you guys think

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    Default Re: Walking around like youre super confident wont get girls to approach yo

    Definitely, if you walk around cowardly the girl will not be attracted to you and will not want to talk to you. If you act super confident the girl will be nervous and not want to start a conversation because she's shy and insecure and you might not want to talk to her. If she talks to you, she's 1) incredibly confident 2) settings high expectations of you

    I remember reading something about girls approaching you a couple of days ago and how negging them incredibly hard is super important. I don't think the main reason I walk around confidently is so that girls approach me. The reason I personally walk around confidently is because I am confident, and it makes me feel confident and then I confidently approach girls. If you have AA just look at all the people walking by you. Everybody will show off body language that can give you a good conversational starter/neg.

    If they're doing something weird call them on it. If she looks stressed tell her so and say she should take some deep breathes. If she looks relaxed tell her to stop slacking around. Just remember to be fun and playful about it. Sometimes going up and saying you think they're cute is just too much pressure at first

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    Default Re: Walking around like youre super confident wont get girls to approach yo

    when do girls ever approach, never unless they are a slut or need/want something. Or a PUA lol
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Walking around like youre super confident wont get girls to approach yo

    Quote Originally Posted by Tyrone1991 View Post
    when do girls ever approach, never unless they are a slut or need/want something. Or a PUA lol
    HB8 and HB4 approached me the other day. Wanted to sit at my table in the caf.


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