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    Default Friend zone help?

    A college girl told me in front of her friends that I reminded her of her middle school friend who's a guy, but smarter and asian. Did I just get friend zoned? I flirted with her + kino, peacocked by wearing good clothes + watch, DHV by flirting with other girls in front of her and getting IOIs. What did I do wrong? Is it because i'm asian? :\

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    Default Re: Friend zone help?

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-seduce-...advantage.html

    look mate, it has nothing to do with you being asian, its how much attraction you build, i think you should try some other techniques:

    1. Making her qualify
    2. Triangle theory (above)
    3. Cat string theory
    4. DLV her
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Friend zone help?

    I think she already knows that i've been out with other girls before, since she asked me about kissing someone and "falling in love" with them right away. I just responded by saying "no" and that I have to be able to talk to the girl and that she has to be attractive while smiling and looking at her. I am really confused by what she is doing...she flirted back with me, and now she isnt doing sh1t. But I will try the triangle theory!

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    Default Re: Friend zone help?

    J.T. Tran hasn't had much trouble lately... and he's Asian.

    Also, based on what you described, her comments COULD be complimentary...

    Besides.... her "Middle School friend" could be a code-word for HOT.

    It's not really decipherable from just that bit of info, or without being there.


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    Default Re: Friend zone help?

    Also I've waited 3 weeks to give her my number in order for me to help her study. By giving her my number, did I just DLV myself?

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    Default Re: Friend zone help?

    Not necessarily...
    It depends on the situation & how you presented it.

    You can totally give a girl your number within a couple minutes, if you do it right. But it's pretty much a lucky guess determining her personality type right off the bat.

    However; a general baseline to go by is this:
    Be confident & funny.

    Think along the lines of saying something like, "Ya know, you might find yourself in a pinch & need some assistance at some point. Here's my number. Call me & I'll help a sista' out any way I can. "

    It comes across as being sure of yourself, AND it mixes in a humorous vibe, without being cocky.


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    Default Re: Friend zone help?

    Alright cool! thanks alot man! lol I was about to just give up and move on to another girl right after she just compared me to a middle school friend. So I can just finish this up with the triangle theory and i'm good or is it a bad idea to just constantly talk/flirt with girls in front of her?

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    Default Re: Friend zone help?

    I'd recommened the "Jealously" card only in the beginning & only if she's resistant at first.
    Otherwise you come off looking like a player. ("Players" are not "High Value" guys & wouldn't be a beneficial situation)


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    Default Re: Friend zone help?

    Got it. Thanks for answering my question!


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