So this hot bartender i have been flirting with for a while, I know she has a bf but it seems like we can move past that. We made a few tentative dates but fell through on both sides. Then she texts me, hey heading to xyz bar for my day why dont you come if interested... i say i would love to stop by and buy you a bday drink or two but dont think i can recruit any wingman tonight, i might have to be hans solo and dont want to cramp your style. She says you wont be cramping my style! come it should be fun, a party... So i go and the bar is a real whole in the wall and its dead da boot. And it is just this girl, her best friend, the girls bf and his friend. So she comes right to me and brings me over and does the rounds and I end up hanging with them and kinda leading the conversation along. The girl takes a few pics with me and invites me out with them after but i decline. I dont know is that odd? I mean seems like a weird place to invite a guy you barely know to hang out with your core friends. Also I am kinda a good looking guy and well dressed and her BF is a total tool, pac man face, bad hair, bad shirt, belly hanging out, plastic watch and sandals... i dont know how he is her bf... anyone got an opinion?