Hit a slump, what's not working?
Hey guys, I have just started University on my second year and its freshers week. There's not as many people at University as last year because of the fee rise in the UK but still plenty of HBs to game. My ability to open a set incredible as my AFC friends watch in amazement and see this new and changed man. Right off the bat I don't believe in terms of appearance I am an attractive man but I do exercise, eat well and clean myself well. I am chubby and brown skinned, so I'm not some pop-star looking guy with nice muscles but I digress.
My main problem is my number closes and even kiss closes. When I first started off around 2 months ago I was on fire and I had solid game but something feels like it's missing but I don't know what. I have revised the conquer your campus book, the mystery method and double your dating numerous times and I have a pad for my overall game plan that I use from opening a set to gaining their number.
Everytime during mid-game or when its time to number close I get these things that keep re-occuring: I'm not giving out my number right now to strangers I just met (after a half an hour talk?)and they tell me to find them some other night and I get their number, one of their friends interrupts and they leave me to get a drink/dance, I didn't bring my phone out tonight/it died (this has happened 4 times in 2 days). Now I'm not saying I have not got one number close but I have had several but I see them the next night chatting to another guy who I know has little game but it's fucked up because they seem more interested in that guy than they did with me.
It's just weird because I have high social proof, a lot of energy, funny, I'm pre-selected because I have a lot of lady friends as well. In one set when I opened the girl about 15 people I knew passed me and I high fived all of them including the girls and I got her number.
I normally open, FTC, hook, fluff for a bit on University and other things like name and where they're from, tease/neg, DHV and make her qualify, fluff a little bit more on cooking/music then run the cube (they normally get hooked on this), a cold read, make her qualify again (beauty is common gambit), then go for palm reading but say it's too dark for that but I can show them around town and give them a palm read when I'm not busy and as long as they can behave themselves but this is where the excuses come in.
My body language is in check, I'm normally cool with a few jokes up my sleeve and I punish with IODs and reward with IOIs so I'm just finding it really odd that I'm not doing as well as normal like I have low form. I'm not frustrated because I believe in continuous improvement and I will continue to go out there and game sets. If I can get some feedback on what's going wrong then it would be awesome so I can just improve.
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