(this is a real long msg, to skip the bs and get to the point, just go down to the bold and underlined)
ok i am new to the game. but not new to women. im 27, not ugly or stupid. ive had plenty of sex and girlfriends. however, i see women everyday that i want to approach and have no idea how to. i get rejected by girls and screw up little relationships all the time. im no virgin or loser, but feel like one sometimes when i fuck something up or cant muster the confidence to say hi to someone.
just two nights ago, monday, i did approach a girl at a bar, and in 30 seconds had her back at the bar having a drink, got her number two minutes later. she lives 3 hours away, was leaving town in two days. wednesday, so we planned a drink for tues night. even as we sat at the bar mon night she sent me a text right beside me saying hopefully we can get together tomorrow. tues came around and she said she had to leave town today, i played it fairly cool. sent her a text today to see if when she is back in town and no response.
she was a hot woman who was into me and she completly blew me off. i felt like a 10 that night and feel like a 3 now. it seemed too good to be true and of course it fucking was. also, i am starting some online dating stuff and a few times a girl sees my picture and stops messenging me. and it fucking kills me
obviously there is rejection in this game, what im starting to realize is i let it get to me way too much and the value that the girl gives me is how i value myself and i know this isnt right!!
im sure there is plenty of content on inner game and confidence and importantly being happy with myself no matter whathappens with the girl that night. i dont want a rejection to be 'oh joe you suck" i need to turn that into "oh that chic sucks she doesnt know what she is missing"
any advice fellas? what or who should i read? i need to take care of this personal issue as a pre cursor to pua. or else ill be a wreck every second night. lol any advice or any pointers in the right direction would be great. thanks man,