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Thread: Avoiding me after intimacy

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    Default Avoiding me after intimacy

    Hello My friends! I Need your advice. I have a problem with a certain girl.
    I 24 and she is 20. I meet her In club, and after 3 dates, relation was developing in good direction. We text a lot, she even said she missed me. On 4th date she come to my place and stay until next day. We drink a little, watch movies, we kiss although she was reluctant and the beginning and I gave her a massage but she didn't want to return a massage.. Then I decided after 2 hours of fun : time to go Steep tomorrow we go on a trip..

    And from the very next day everything has changed. She become closed, distanced, unwilling toward me, (maybe even kind of angry). She is still texting me from time to time but it is not the same and occasional good night sms.. I asked her out sever times, she give lot of excuses, and met with me only one time in last 4 weeks and said she must come back home after 1h …

    She was distanced, closed off but friendly..

    Meanwhile I had a serious injury on a duty (i am firefighter/paramed.) after which i was in hospital for 2 weeks and she declared that she will visit me but she didn't. I got angry with her and stop texting and after several days she tried to re-initiated contact few times and finalny i answered. Now i will be seeing her twice a week in her school.. But she is still distanced and closed. I had several women before but this time i fell i really love that girl and care for her so much, if not i would move on much earlier but i am willing to invest time and effort in order to win her.

    My question for you is how should i behave, act, toward Her, What kind of tactic should i use to open her up and make her mine again. What can I do? What should I do?

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    Default Re: Avoiding me after intimacy

    I strongly belive it's same kind of messed up asd, What can i do with this? Ii it not too late?
    Any help?

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    Default Re: Avoiding me after intimacy

    Its not ASD, She proubably thinks you just want sex, you need to re-assure her emotionally. But i honestly think its too late now. Just Let her re-intiate if she does. Work other girls.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    I am sorry,Ive just realized I overlloked the most important detail. The massage developed into me kissing her body and fingering her *****. It surely was great for her althought she didnt allow me to make her orgasm, she just moved back right before climax.....

    Can someone please answer my question one more time...?

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    Default Re: Avoiding me after intimacy

    How do you know that it was great for her ? Perhaps you moved too quickly to
    fingering her without getting her warmed up enough and eventually she
    stopped you. She may be annoyed now because you did not pay
    enough attention to what she needed to feel comfortable more than
    you were concerned with trying to get her to have sex.

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    Default Re: Avoiding me after intimacy

    I'd say offer on a date. Just say dinner. and you cant part ways straight after. say " you just want to get to the rest of her first"
    that should gob smack her and should make her think you want to get to know her personality more. Thats if you do Love Her. Sometimes you have to be genuene
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.


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