Hello My friends! I Need your advice. I have a problem with a certain girl.
I 24 and she is 20. I meet her In club, and after 3 dates, relation was developing in good direction. We text a lot, she even said she missed me. On 4th date she come to my place and stay until next day. We drink a little, watch movies, we kiss although she was reluctant and the beginning and I gave her a massage but she didn't want to return a massage.. Then I decided after 2 hours of fun : time to go Steep tomorrow we go on a trip..
And from the very next day everything has changed. She become closed, distanced, unwilling toward me, (maybe even kind of angry). She is still texting me from time to time but it is not the same and occasional good night sms.. I asked her out sever times, she give lot of excuses, and met with me only one time in last 4 weeks and said she must come back home after 1h …
She was distanced, closed off but friendly..
Meanwhile I had a serious injury on a duty (i am firefighter/paramed.) after which i was in hospital for 2 weeks and she declared that she will visit me but she didn't. I got angry with her and stop texting and after several days she tried to re-initiated contact few times and finalny i answered. Now i will be seeing her twice a week in her school.. But she is still distanced and closed. I had several women before but this time i fell i really love that girl and care for her so much, if not i would move on much earlier but i am willing to invest time and effort in order to win her.
My question for you is how should i behave, act, toward Her, What kind of tactic should i use to open her up and make her mine again. What can I do? What should I do?