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    Sabroll is offline Banned
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    Default Advice on 1st email

    Hi it's my 1st time on match .. I saw this girls profile I like what would be the best way to get her attention and interested.. This is what her profile say

    I'm looking for: anyone i can kick back, chill and have a good time with... someone who is driven, honest, sincere and cares about their family and friends...someone who can hold an intellectual conversation and make corny jokes for me to laugh at. I need a person who can sit in and watch a movie one night and then party like a rock star the next and go on a spontaneous travel trip to who knows where the next day... is this you? "




    Your inputs would be greatly appreciated.. Thanks in advance

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    Default Re: Advice on 1st email

    I just want to say that you probably sound like every guy on match.com so if i was i would include some cocky/funny on your profile and when you email someone.

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    Default Re: Advice on 1st email

    I agree, make sure your profile ticks most of her 'selection criteria' and is not too long. She will definitely spend some time looking at your profile so have a good pic and if you can't think of anything funny just say you are a happy smart and funny guy who has a positive attitude to life. I would avoid canned or risky openers and keep it short - your aim is really to say hi and get her to respond. If you can't think of something amazing or unique to say then it could be something really simple and enthusiastic like 'Hey Doc! I'm blah blah blah I have also just joined match.com. It would be great to chat to you. Have a good day!' seems boring at first BUT you are at least saying hi (hey doc to show a hint of humor) and introducing who you are, you are requesting conversation (chat, easy connection) and wishing her a good day (positive, enthusiastic). You don't want to give her the impression you are only writing to her and you don't have to say anything too fancy (risky) or long because you can do that in your profile. Your main aim is to get her to respond and I've found simple positive openers effective when coupled with a good profile. I have found wishing them a good day at the end of the message successful.

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    Default Re: Advice on 1st email

    Thanks guy for the input ... She replied!

    She said : "your profile says you are not here? How is meeting up possible?"

    I travel often.

    Any suggestions on how would I reply to this?

    Thank you

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    Default Re: Advice on 1st email

    Quote Originally Posted by Sabo1020 View Post
    Thanks guy for the input ... She replied!

    She said : "your profile says Miami ? How is meeting up possible?"


    I travel often and she is from Chicago...

    Any suggestions on how would I reply to this?

    Thank you
    Tell her exactly what you just said 'I travel often and will be visiting Chicago soon'. Obviously make sure you will be travelling to Chicago with work, otherwise whats the point of even writing to her.

    You probably should be concentrating on women in your area. Consider carefully what kind of relationship you can have with someone from Chicago when you're in Miami. It could be an exciting but casual affair. If she chats more or is interested in you report back and I can help you get that exciting but casual affair.


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